It's not over 'til the fat lady sings they say

Well come on dear, let's hear it!

My bank card was declined, then accepted, then declined, then accepted again over the last 2 weeks

. I got home to find a letter from SatanDare (sic

) about checks on fraudulent activity and have rung them to confirm whatever it is they wanted to know... tw@ts!
They recommend I tell them if I'm going away so they can ok a transaction in Ping Pong's Massage Parlour should I choose to avail myself of their services

Fortunately the other credit card worked fine and ready cash was available, hotel bill paid, etc etc.