Nope, that's why Apey didn't come.
I thought it was really cheeky considering everyone had to pay to stay in the wedding hotel for at least one night also. Oh and 40 of us
had to go for dinner the night before..
The more I think about it, she is the spoiled, pampered little bitch I always thought she was.

Plus if you get a gift, nobody knows how much you spend, when you give cash you don't want to appear to be a tight arse......