Clocks going [EDIT] Foward [/EDIT], whuhey!!

[apc2010]

You know when you feel as though EVERYTHING in your life, and EVERYONE is out to get you and cause mayhem everywhere you go'cus of the overwhelming amounts of shit that are flying past your ears constantly....well this is one of those times.

Don't think I can ever remember feeling quite this down tbqh.

Things can only get better is what I keep telling myself.
Just wish they'd hurry up.

Keep smiling n snarling.......

[GROWLER]

Thanks for the kind words everyone.
It has indeed been possibly one of the most trying shocking and distressing few days of all time for me tbqh. 
I'm still sort of in a state of shock, as is his mother.

We are both blaming ourselves (which is wrong to a certain degree, I know, but you just can't help it) and asking where exactly did we go so badly wrong.

I know the dog has mentioned many tiimes that you have to let your kids get on with life, but when you see one of them commiting such dreadful acts of self destruction, it's very hard to know wheather to leave them to it or try and help.
All not helped now by me and Mrs G#1 having a gagging order placed upon us by the very person that alerted us to some/all the dreadful and almost unbelievable problems, some just too far unsavoury to discuss in here I'm afraid.
This has only made matters worse for us both now, as the planned 'discussions' with him today have now been postponed until she finally leaves him...IF that actually happens, which if she was my daughter, it would most definately.

I just sincerely hope he doesn't contact me in the meantime, as i REALLY REALLY will not be able to hold a reasonable conversation with him.
He doesn't know what i know btw.

[Steve]

What to say?  You clearly care so much which is the right place to be but will also make it seem so much worse to you

Hope it all looks better tomorrow morning

[apc2010]

Thanks for the kind words everyone.
It has indeed been possibly one of the most trying shocking and distressing few days of all time for me tbqh. 
I'm still sort of in a state of shock, as is his mother.

We are both blaming ouyrselves and asking where exactly did we go so badly wrong.

I know the dog has mentioned many tiimes that you have to let your kids get on with life, but when you see one of them commiting such dreadful acts of self destruction, it's very hard to know wheather to leave them to it or try and help.
All not helped now by me and Mrs G#1 having a gagging order placed upon us by the very person that alerted us to some/all the dreadful and almost unbelievable problems, some just too far unsavoury to discuss in here I'm afraid.
This has only made matters worse for us both now, as the planned 'discussions' with him today have now been postponed until she finally leaves him...IF that actually happens, which if she was my daughter, it would most definately.

I just sincerely hope he doesn't contact me in the meantime, as i REALLY REALLY will not be able to hold a reasonable conversation with him.
He doesn't know what i know btw.

Hope all goes well in the end .......

[GROWLER]

I nearly leap out of my skin, evry time a text message arrives now...and there've been plenty of them.

It was ok last time though...it was MM asking for....... TAXI!!

[GROWLER]

What to say?  You clearly care so much which is the right place to be but will also make it seem so much worse to you

Hope it all looks better tomorrow morning

Yea Steve. It's a time like these that I really wish I was just a hard nasty t wat that didn't give a shit.
His mother is on the verge of dis-owning him now she tells me, and I'm not far behind truth be known.
Been going down this increasingly bumpy road for over 2 years now.

[GROWLER]

Thanks for the 'furry oaf' text Nick. <sigh>

I knew it was you before even opening it.

[Nick]

 

[GROWLER]

Yes, I thought I'd share your 'humour' <cough>..<sigh> for everyone to witness.

[apc2010]

How old he he Growler,,,,,,,

[GROWLER]

How old he he Growler,,,,,,,

38, and acting like a 14 year old in some respects.

He used to be so good reliable hard working and smart too, which makes it all the harder to bare.

He looks like a shambles now, according to MM who opened the door for him when he came to collect £60 that i owed him for a job he did whilst I was away 2 weeks ago.
She hardly recognised him and was shocked and concerned, so much so that she text me whilst I was in/near London on Friday

[GROWLER]

Strange how you can have the full on sweet and sour in life going on at the same time.

Here we have G jnr/snr acting like a complete100% nasty vicious vile lying scheming two faced prick and arse, and younger G jnr, smart as they come, using initiative to HELP HIMSELF for betterment on the verge of (hopefully and quite probably) securing a new job within  a massive national and international (N.America) company.
It really doesn't get any more weird than this.
Is it any wonder I'm the King of confuzzlement and confuslication. ey, is it?

Just to add to it all, MM has been accepted and is changing uni's to Liverpool next Sept.
Another twist and turn in the never ending 'interesting <cough> life here at G Towers.

[Misty]

Ah honey, I'm so sorry to hear. Sincerely hope things improve for both of you.

[The Moan Ranger]

Strange how you can have the full on sweet and sour in life going on at the same time.

Here we have G jnr/snr acting like a complete100% nasty vicious vile lying scheming two faced prick and arse, and younger G jnr, smart as they come, using initiative to HELP HIMSELF for betterment on the verge of (hopefully and quite probably) securing a new job within  a massive national and international (N.America) company.
It really doesn't get any more weird than this.
Is it any wonder I'm the King of confuzzlement and confuslication. ey, is it?

Just to add to it all, MM has been accepted and is changing uni's to Liverpool next Sept.
Another twist and turn in the never ending 'interesting <cough> life here at G Towers.

Growler, my thoughts are with you and we all know you will do the utmost for your children coz you're a decent owld bear. Big man-hug to you 

[GROWLER]