My biggest beef is the theft of the word Gay from our lexicon. Queer was quite adequate, Homosexual was even better.
Do my home educated boys know about it? ... Of course they do and they also know I'll come down on them like a ton of sh*t if they use "Gay" "Queer" or "Homo" as an insult to anyone.
Frankly I am of the belief that "each to their own". I won't force my views on them, equally they should not force their views on me.
TBH I really don't care how others get their rocks off. I know what suits me, that's all that matters.
All that said let's not confuse homosexuality with paedophilia. Two very different things altogether.