Both my wives have managed to breast feed with discretion. It is not difficult, it simply requires a degree of modesty. Unfortunately Germaine Greer and co have created a feeling among some wimmin that "We have nothing to be ashamed of". Certainly there is no shame in giving your child what is acknowledged as the best possible start in life (pity you didn't consider that aspect when you selected the gormless, spotty individual that is the father but that is another moan for another day) but feminine modesty instead of the defiant flaunting that seems to be the fashion would be much appreciated.