1) No it isn't.
2) We aren't married. His surname being one of the reasons. 
In that case, you shouldn't be referring to him as Mr Wench seeing as how you are Bar Wench - he must, by your own statement, have a differing surnname and thus cannot be any sort of Wench. Real name must, therefore, be either Lloyd or Price since just about all the others have more than one syllabubble!