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Nod has gone bonkers
« on: February 24, 2023, 03:19:35 PM »
To b honest he has always been a bit frail in the brain department and has been getting worse since his mum died and since his cancer diagnosis. He has a tendency to fly off the handle or shout at the smallest things. The booze does not help  noooo:

He called me on Wednesday ranting and shouting about some workmen in the house next door. I suggested he had a quiet word with the owners. This gentle suggestion appears to have tipped him over the edge eeek:

I have since had a string of abusive messages saying "Our friendship is over" and one this morning informing me that his "revenge" on me will be "ruthless and calculated"!  eeek:

I checked in with a mutual friend who said that he had been round to see Nod and had been shouted at and threatened with a broom handle!!

What do we think: GP or Police?
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #1 on: February 24, 2023, 03:33:09 PM »
To b honest he has always been a bit frail in the brain department and has been getting worse since his mum died and since his cancer diagnosis. He has a tendency to fly off the handle or shout at the smallest things. The booze does not help  noooo:

He called me on Wednesday ranting and shouting about some workmen in the house next door. I suggested he had a quiet word with the owners. This gentle suggestion appears to have tipped him over the edge eeek:

I have since had a string of abusive messages saying "Our friendship is over" and one this morning informing me that his "revenge" on me will be "ruthless and calculated"!  eeek:

I checked in with a mutual friend who said that he had been round to see Nod and had been shouted at and threatened with a broom handle!!

What do we think: GP or Police?

GP first I should think but they are liable to prescribe strong drugs which may make him non-functional... A friend of mine is going through a similar thing...
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #2 on: February 24, 2023, 04:35:22 PM »
My psychologist pal agrees and says to call his GP (same on as me). She says it sounds like a "psychotic episode"
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« Reply #3 on: February 24, 2023, 05:20:40 PM »
My psychologist pal agrees and says to call his GP (same on as me). She says it sounds like a "psychotic episode"

My mate had one... Was convinced (and described in great detail) how he was kidnapped on the motorway... Unfortunately he has been drugged-up ever since and is a shadow of his former self...  cry:
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #4 on: February 24, 2023, 05:24:02 PM »
Nod is already a shadow of his former self but also has a broom handle and a cricket bat  eeek: scared2:
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #5 on: February 24, 2023, 05:26:56 PM »
Nod is already a shadow of his former self but also has a broom handle and a cricket bat  eeek: scared2:

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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #6 on: February 24, 2023, 05:55:53 PM »
What drugs/ treatment  is he on at the moment - could these be impacting his behaviour / moods ?
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #7 on: February 24, 2023, 06:00:53 PM »
None. Nothing else they can do for him. That may be the problem
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #8 on: February 24, 2023, 07:12:56 PM »
To b honest he has always been a bit frail in the brain department and has been getting worse since his mum died and since his cancer diagnosis. He has a tendency to fly off the handle or shout at the smallest things. The booze does not help  noooo:

He called me on Wednesday ranting and shouting about some workmen in the house next door. I suggested he had a quiet word with the owners. This gentle suggestion appears to have tipped him over the edge eeek:

I have since had a string of abusive messages saying "Our friendship is over" and one this morning informing me that his "revenge" on me will be "ruthless and calculated"!  eeek:

I checked in with a mutual friend who said that he had been round to see Nod and had been shouted at and threatened with a broom handle!!

What do we think: GP or Police?

GP first I should think but they are liable to prescribe strong drugs which may make him non-functional... A friend of mine is going through a similar thing...
Shit what an awful situation(s)

But surely best to tell the police too.  Who else is he issuing threats to?

Could it be dementia? 
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #9 on: February 24, 2023, 07:33:49 PM »
Anger with the world and everyone in it and fear I would imagine. 

Poor Nod but difficult to handle for those closest to him
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #10 on: February 25, 2023, 03:02:59 PM »
His brother calls

He had a meltdown in his bank this morning. Police attended and he is being Sectioned  noooo:
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #11 on: February 25, 2023, 03:34:39 PM »
His brother calls

He had a meltdown in his bank this morning. Police attended and he is being Sectioned  noooo:

Oh what a shame... But perhaps best for everyone...?

My experience is that it is extremely difficult to get people sectioned even when  it is clear they are a danger to themselves and others so the incident at the bank may be a blessing in disguise...
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #12 on: February 25, 2023, 03:37:08 PM »
Zackly. I suspect strong medication will be in order noooo:
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #13 on: February 25, 2023, 03:47:03 PM »
Zackly. I suspect strong medication will be in order noooo:

Given his other health issues that might be a blessing...
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Re: Nod has gone bonkers
« Reply #14 on: February 25, 2023, 06:28:27 PM »
His brother calls

He had a meltdown in his bank this morning. Police attended and he is being Sectioned  noooo:

Oh what a shame... But perhaps best for everyone...?

My experience is that it is extremely difficult to get people sectioned even when  it is clear they are a danger to themselves and others so the incident at the bank may be a blessing in disguise...
Seconded but what a sad turn of events  noooo:
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