Just spoke to Big Sis who is still a bit addled, but going home tomorrow.
Asked her about her live in carer (who is arriving at 11.06 apparently!)
Her name is Jenny. She will do all the cooking, cleaning, bathing, dressing and so on. Trained nurse and trained bereavement counsellor

Me: Have you met her?
Sis: No,, but I have a pic, she is a negro

Me: FFS, don't say that! Her name is Jenny
Note to self: Call Jenny