P'raps Shelah could explain to the resident nonce
where she lives and did she see her dad regulary, you know, just a bit of background that i appear to have either forgotton, or didn't actually know in the first place, tar.
Is there anyone else likely to appear in here that ISN'T THW? 
Well I live in the concrete metropolis of Milk n Beans. Didn't see the Old Boy as often as I should have; usual excuses of family, work, life getting in the way. I can't claim to have had the easiest relationship with him and am guilty of the assumption that there'd be plenty of time to put it right - live and learn and all that

There is another son, my older brother, and that relationship was even worse so none of us have a clue whether there will be 4 or all 5 of his children there on Wednesday.
He
has had 4 grandchildren, one of whom is my daughter who is 6 months younger than THW. End of year exams prevent her from attending and the others are Mark's kids so they won't show.
Oh and my FB friends would testify that I share the love of acronyms since most of them only know my husband as CH ...