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Title: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 24, 2023, 03:19:35 PM
To b honest he has always been a bit frail in the brain department and has been getting worse since his mum died and since his cancer diagnosis. He has a tendency to fly off the handle or shout at the smallest things. The booze does not help  noooo:

He called me on Wednesday ranting and shouting about some workmen in the house next door. I suggested he had a quiet word with the owners. This gentle suggestion appears to have tipped him over the edge eeek:

I have since had a string of abusive messages saying "Our friendship is over" and one this morning informing me that his "revenge" on me will be "ruthless and calculated"!  eeek:

I checked in with a mutual friend who said that he had been round to see Nod and had been shouted at and threatened with a broom handle!!

What do we think: GP or Police?
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Barman on February 24, 2023, 03:33:09 PM
To b honest he has always been a bit frail in the brain department and has been getting worse since his mum died and since his cancer diagnosis. He has a tendency to fly off the handle or shout at the smallest things. The booze does not help  noooo:

He called me on Wednesday ranting and shouting about some workmen in the house next door. I suggested he had a quiet word with the owners. This gentle suggestion appears to have tipped him over the edge eeek:

I have since had a string of abusive messages saying "Our friendship is over" and one this morning informing me that his "revenge" on me will be "ruthless and calculated"!  eeek:

I checked in with a mutual friend who said that he had been round to see Nod and had been shouted at and threatened with a broom handle!!

What do we think: GP or Police?

GP first I should think but they are liable to prescribe strong drugs which may make him non-functional... A friend of mine is going through a similar thing...
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 24, 2023, 04:35:22 PM
My psychologist pal agrees and says to call his GP (same on as me). She says it sounds like a "psychotic episode"
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Barman on February 24, 2023, 05:20:40 PM
My psychologist pal agrees and says to call his GP (same on as me). She says it sounds like a "psychotic episode"

My mate had one... Was convinced (and described in great detail) how he was kidnapped on the motorway... Unfortunately he has been drugged-up ever since and is a shadow of his former self...  cry:
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 24, 2023, 05:24:02 PM
Nod is already a shadow of his former self but also has a broom handle and a cricket bat  eeek: scared2:
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Barman on February 24, 2023, 05:26:56 PM
Nod is already a shadow of his former self but also has a broom handle and a cricket bat  eeek: scared2:

 eeek:
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Miss Demeanour on February 24, 2023, 05:55:53 PM
What drugs/ treatment  is he on at the moment - could these be impacting his behaviour / moods ?
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 24, 2023, 06:00:53 PM
None. Nothing else they can do for him. That may be the problem
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Steve on February 24, 2023, 07:12:56 PM
To b honest he has always been a bit frail in the brain department and has been getting worse since his mum died and since his cancer diagnosis. He has a tendency to fly off the handle or shout at the smallest things. The booze does not help  noooo:

He called me on Wednesday ranting and shouting about some workmen in the house next door. I suggested he had a quiet word with the owners. This gentle suggestion appears to have tipped him over the edge eeek:

I have since had a string of abusive messages saying "Our friendship is over" and one this morning informing me that his "revenge" on me will be "ruthless and calculated"!  eeek:

I checked in with a mutual friend who said that he had been round to see Nod and had been shouted at and threatened with a broom handle!!

What do we think: GP or Police?

GP first I should think but they are liable to prescribe strong drugs which may make him non-functional... A friend of mine is going through a similar thing...
Shit what an awful situation(s)

But surely best to tell the police too.  Who else is he issuing threats to?

Could it be dementia? 
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Miss Demeanour on February 24, 2023, 07:33:49 PM
Anger with the world and everyone in it and fear I would imagine. 

Poor Nod but difficult to handle for those closest to him
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 25, 2023, 03:02:59 PM
His brother calls

He had a meltdown in his bank this morning. Police attended and he is being Sectioned  noooo:
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Barman on February 25, 2023, 03:34:39 PM
His brother calls

He had a meltdown in his bank this morning. Police attended and he is being Sectioned  noooo:

Oh what a shame... But perhaps best for everyone...?

My experience is that it is extremely difficult to get people sectioned even when  it is clear they are a danger to themselves and others so the incident at the bank may be a blessing in disguise...
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 25, 2023, 03:37:08 PM
Zackly. I suspect strong medication will be in order noooo:
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Barman on February 25, 2023, 03:47:03 PM
Zackly. I suspect strong medication will be in order noooo:

Given his other health issues that might be a blessing...
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Steve on February 25, 2023, 06:28:27 PM
His brother calls

He had a meltdown in his bank this morning. Police attended and he is being Sectioned  noooo:

Oh what a shame... But perhaps best for everyone...?

My experience is that it is extremely difficult to get people sectioned even when  it is clear they are a danger to themselves and others so the incident at the bank may be a blessing in disguise...
Seconded but what a sad turn of events  noooo:
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 25, 2023, 06:36:48 PM
Frankly, the best option at present  noooo:
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 28, 2023, 11:47:56 AM
He has been set free with strong drugs and some strict orders and a bit of medical supervision. He sends me grovelling apologies
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Barman on February 28, 2023, 01:25:55 PM
He has been set free with strong drugs and some strict orders and a bit of medical supervision. He sends me grovelling apologies

Well, good that he knows he has done wrong...  rubschin:
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Nick on February 28, 2023, 02:49:25 PM
Not entirely his fault that he went bonkers, but I am keeping my distance for a few days
Title: Re: Nod has gone bonkers
Post by: Steve on February 28, 2023, 04:59:56 PM
Wise and good news