The Virtual Pub
Come Inside... => The Medical Centre => Topic started by: Nick on August 11, 2020, 01:02:41 PM
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Glad to have seen Big Sis. When I left today she asked about my route home.
Straight up to Oxford, M40, Coventry and the M69 up to leicester.
She said quicker on the M3 - it goes straight to Twickenham!
I left Twickenham in 1978 noooo:
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Glad to have seen Big Sis. When I left today she asked about my route home.
Straight up to Oxford, M40, Coventry and the M69 up to leicester.
She said quicker on the M3 - it goes straight to Twickenham!
I left Twickenham in 1978 noooo:
noooo: so sorry Nick
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Glad to have seen Big Sis. When I left today she asked about my route home.
Straight up to Oxford, M40, Coventry and the M69 up to leicester.
She said quicker on the M3 - it goes straight to Twickenham!
I left Twickenham in 1978 noooo:
noooo: so sorry Nick
^^^ wot Steve said cry: ^^^
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Family conference call with Big Sis's stepdaughters, they are on side, but her actual children are currently fvcking useless. Banghead Banghead
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Family conference call with Big Sis's stepdaughters, they are on side, but her actual children are currently fvcking useless. Banghead Banghead
noooo:
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Another a conference call between Kuala Lumpy, Orkney, California and Hertfordshire eeek:
Power of Attorney is in place. Over to the kids, I say!! NickSick
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And they all think as one: Uncle Nick will sort it. And they probably blame you for discovering the issue
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Glad to have seen Big Sis. When I left today she asked about my route home.
Straight up to Oxford, M40, Coventry and the M69 up to leicester.
She said quicker on the M3 - it goes straight to Twickenham!
I left Twickenham in 1978 noooo:
noooo: so sorry Nick
So sorry Nick
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The kids are now all squabbling about whether or not she has Alzheimer's. GET HER GP TO CHECK HER OUT FOR A DIAGNOSIS!!!!
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They will all agree on only one thing: it's your fault and you have to sort it
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The kids are now all squabbling about whether or not she has Alzheimer's. GET HER GP TO CHECK HER OUT FOR A DIAGNOSIS!!!!
noooo: noooo:
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The kids are now all squabbling about whether or not she has Alzheimer's. GET HER GP TO CHECK HER OUT FOR A DIAGNOSIS!!!!
Very wise. It could be something quite different.
Never easy to deal with whatever it is. noooo:
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Yes there are other dementia causes: for example Vascular, Lewy Bodies and Parkinsons dementia are some and precise diagnosis is hard. In any event their effects are all highly distressing and few real treatments beyond how to cope with it.
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None of the kids know who her GP is Banghead
Guess what, I phoned and asked her! :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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None of the kids know who her GP is Banghead
Guess what, I phoned and asked her! :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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2 of the kids are fucking millionaires (I kid you not) and they so tight that it does not cross their minds to pay for an assessment privately Banghead Banghead Banghead
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2 of the kids are fucking millionaires (I kid you not) and they so tight that it does not cross their minds to pay for an assessment privately Banghead Banghead Banghead
Because to them it's all your fault as if you hadn't spotted it they'd not know
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My nephew (age 60!) may be better than the others, my niece, the entitled bitch, has stuck her head in the sand and most certainly blames me. Then, she hasn't bothered to visit her mum for 2 years (a one hour drive) Banghead
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Wouldn't it be tragic if her social circle got to hear what a heartless bitch she is
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rubschin:
Nah, not worth the bother. They are all ladies who lunch.... ::)
Still, charming of her to flee to the castle in the Orkneys indefinitely leaving her husband (a QC) earning the family dosh in London. She has designed a charity tea towel in her absence :thumbsup: Only £10! Not sure she does irony
(https://i.postimg.cc/dL4n4RxT/117032566-1708396015982088-2877096163967015787-o.jpg) (https://postimg.cc/dL4n4RxT)
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lol:
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She can't be that stoopid surely? eeek:
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Sense of humour bypass noooo:
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Sense of humour bypass noooo:
Or a marketing suggestion from Uncle Nick?
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At £10 for a dishcloth? I wish!!
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More banging kids' heads together Banghead Banghead
If no response by tomorrow I am contacting the GP. Her kids are useless!!
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More banging kids' heads together Banghead Banghead
If no response by tomorrow I am contacting the GP. Her kids are useless!!
When you say 'useless' are you sure you don't mean 'manipulating, devious and cunning'? Looks to me like you are being played
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Nephew says his sister is handling it and has contacted the GP. Called GP. She has not called them Banghead Banghead Banghead
Job done :thumbsup:
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Nephew says his sister is handling it and has contacted the GP. Called GP. She has not called them Banghead Banghead Banghead
Job done :thumbsup:
Thumbs:
Did she forget ...... redface: redface:
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SHe is a poisonous entitled selfish bitch who tried to tell her stepsisters not to speak to me!! They called me to tell me this! Fucking families !!
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SHe is a poisonous entitled selfish bitch who tried to tell her stepsisters not to speak to me!! They called me to tell me this! Fucking families !!
noooo:
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What is this thread about?
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What is this thread about?
lol: lol: lol:
Shrugs:
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who are you?
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Oh great, my toxic niece has phoned my sister, told here that I think she has Alzheimer's and has terrified her!! Big Sis called me in tears saying over and over "I don't want to see my doctor". I am fucking furious!
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Oh great, my toxic niece has phoned my sister, told here that I think she has Alzheimer's and has terrified her!! Big Sis called me in tears saying over and over "I don't want to see my doctor". I am fucking furious!
noooo:
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Oh great, my toxic niece has phoned my sister, told here that I think she has Alzheimer's and has terrified her!! Big Sis called me in tears saying over and over "I don't want to see my doctor". I am fucking furious!
She prolly read it on here... noooo:
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GP telling bone consultation booked for Monday morning :thumbsup:
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GP telling bone consultation booked for Monday morning :thumbsup:
Nick on Monday afternoon: "I'm sure I was supposed to do something today"
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GP telling bone consultation booked for Monday morning :thumbsup:
Nick on Monday afternoon: "I'm sure I was supposed to do something today"
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GP telling bone consultation booked for Monday morning :thumbsup:
Nick on Monday afternoon: "I'm sure I was supposed to do something today"
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GP telling bone consultation booked for Monday morning :thumbsup:
Nick on Monday afternoon: "I'm sure I was supposed to do something today"
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Getting old is no fun. The three I'm sharing this sub-ward with don't have Alzheimer's but all are a bit doolally. none can be totally aware of what's happening, they need constant care as all three are incontinent, one need constant watching as can be violent (I had to hold him back after he assaulted a nurse, physically and racially) They tend to spend all day staring off into space with no engagement with anyone. No life worth living. noooo:
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noooo: noooo:
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Getting old is no fun. The three I'm sharing this sub-ward with don't have Alzheimer's but all are a bit doolally. none can be totally aware of what's happening, they need constant care as all three are incontinent, one need constant watching as can be violent (I had to hold him back after he assaulted a nurse, physically and racially) They tend to spend all day staring off into space with no engagement with anyone. No life worth living. noooo:
Leyton Orient supporters then
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Getting old is no fun. The three I'm sharing this sub-ward with don't have Alzheimer's but all are a bit doolally. none can be totally aware of what's happening, they need constant care as all three are incontinent, one need constant watching as can be violent (I had to hold him back after he assaulted a nurse, physically and racially) They tend to spend all day staring off into space with no engagement with anyone. No life worth living. noooo:
Leyton Orient supporters then
;D
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noooo: noooo:
noooo: noooo: noooo:
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Spoke to GP
She was very good :thumbsup:
Apparently, she has to go round to the house to give both of them a flu jab whistle:
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Spoke to GP
She was very good :thumbsup:
Apparently, she has to go round to the house to give both of them a flu jab whistle:
:thumbsup:
A cunning plan
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Excellent plan :thumbsup:
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I now await a mahoosive shitstorm
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Excellent plan :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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Big Sis now refusing to let anyone in the house (including doctor) and also refusing to go to GP surgery.
Apparently GP has called my niece (who has Power of Attorney) who has said there is nothing wrong with Big Sis and to leave her alone facepalm: Banghead
Fucking families Angry9:
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noooo:
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I fear for my mind:
Just to keep my car battery charged while the car is in dock I run the engine every now and then. Came to do it this morning couldn't find the keys. Also couldn't find the spare set. Spent half an hour rummaging around, no luck. Was even about to contact my son and accuse him of hiding them.
Odd thing was that I had the fobs. I'd found other keys (what for I've no idea) and went to put them on the key hooks by the back door. I looked at the car keyfob and it was then I realised that the key folded in the fob doh:
Senior moments don't come any better. eeek:
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I fear for my mind:
Just to keep my car battery charged while the car is in dock I run the engine every now and then. Came to do it this morning couldn't find the keys. Also couldn't find the spare set. Spent half an hour rummaging around, no luck. Was even about to contact my son and accuse him of hiding them.
Odd thing was that I had the fobs. I'd found other keys (what for I've no idea) and went to put them on the key hooks by the back door. I looked at the car keyfob and it was then I realised that the key folded in the fob doh:
Senior moments don't come any better. eeek:
lol: lol: lol:
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I fear for my mind:
Just to keep my car battery charged while the car is in dock I run the engine every now and then. Came to do it this morning couldn't find the keys. Also couldn't find the spare set. Spent half an hour rummaging around, no luck. Was even about to contact my son and accuse him of hiding them.
Odd thing was that I had the fobs. I'd found other keys (what for I've no idea) and went to put them on the key hooks by the back door. I looked at the car keyfob and it was then I realised that the key folded in the fob doh:
Senior moments don't come any better. eeek:
lol: lol: lol:
lol: lol: lol: lol:
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Big Sis calls: I see Nottingham is going to Tier 3. Good job you moved back to Twickenham
noooo: noooo:
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I had forgotten this thread.
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Big Sis calls: I see Nottingham is going to Tier 3. Good job you moved back to Twickenham
noooo: noooo:
noooo: noooo: noooo:
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Oh great. My BiL is in hospital and my Big Sis is alone and can't visit and he is 85 and dying and she is going a bit bonkers and her useless kids are doing nothing and I can't even visit!
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Oh great. My BiL is in hospital and my Big Sis is alone and can't visit and he is 85 and dying and she is going a bit bonkers and her useless kids are doing nothing and I can't even visit!
noooo:
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Oh great. My BiL is in hospital and my Big Sis is alone and can't visit and he is 85 and dying and she is going a bit bonkers and her useless kids are doing nothing and I can't even visit!
noooo:
noooo: noooo: happy100
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Oh great. My BiL is in hospital and my Big Sis is alone and can't visit and he is 85 and dying and she is going a bit bonkers and her useless kids are doing nothing and I can't even visit!
Fuck, Nick happy100 happy100
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Oh great. My BiL is in hospital and my Big Sis is alone and can't visit and he is 85 and dying and she is going a bit bonkers and her useless kids are doing nothing and I can't even visit!
noooo:
noooo: noooo: happy100
noooo: noooo: noooo:
Life can be an all round bitch sometimes. happy100
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Big Sis is in hospital folliwing a fall and does not know what year it is sad32:
Stepdaughters both have Covid in the house and cannot visit. BiL alone and helpless. Big Sis daugher (I love Twatt) doing nothing.
Can this year get any worse?
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Big Sis is in hospital folliwing a fall and does not know what year it is sad32:
Stepdaughters both have Covid in the house and cannot visit. BiL alone and helpless. Big Sis daugher (I love Twatt) doing nothing.
Can this year get any worse?
Oh shit what a mess, sorry to hear
And sadly yes it can get worse but please please not
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Big Sis is in hospital folliwing a fall and does not know what year it is sad32:
Stepdaughters both have Covid in the house and cannot visit. BiL alone and helpless. Big Sis daugher (I love Twatt) doing nothing.
Can this year get any worse?
happy100
I feel it can get worse and next year worserer... noooo:
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Big Sis is in hospital folliwing a fall and does not know what year it is sad32:
Stepdaughters both have Covid in the house and cannot visit. BiL alone and helpless. Big Sis daugher (I love Twatt) doing nothing.
Can this year get any worse?
What a mare !!! happy100
Shall we fire up the pub karaoke machine on Christmas Eve and lets all get bladdered eastdrink048
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Big Sis is in hospital folliwing a fall and does not know what year it is sad32:
Stepdaughters both have Covid in the house and cannot visit. BiL alone and helpless. Big Sis daugher (I love Twatt) doing nothing.
Can this year get any worse?
Sorry to hear..
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Big Sis is in hospital folliwing a fall and does not know what year it is sad32:
Stepdaughters both have Covid in the house and cannot visit. BiL alone and helpless. Big Sis daugher (I love Twatt) doing nothing.
Can this year get any worse?
What a mare !!! happy100
Shall we fire up the pub karaoke machine on Christmas Eve and lets all get bladdered eastdrink048
eeek:
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Big Sis is in hospital folliwing a fall and does not know what year it is sad32:
Stepdaughters both have Covid in the house and cannot visit. BiL alone and helpless. Big Sis daugher (I love Twatt) doing nothing.
Can this year get any worse?
Sorry to hear..
That is dire. All these secondary effects of lockdown just make it so much worse.
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Big SIs now in emergency brain surgery in Southampton, This will not end well.
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Big SIs now in emergency brain surgery in Southampton, This will not end well.
Good luck to her. happy100
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Big SIs now in emergency brain surgery in Southampton, This will not end well.
Good luck to her. happy100
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What an awful turn of events this is
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Big SIs now in emergency brain surgery in Southampton, This will not end well.
Oh Nick so sorry to hear this news...hope the operation is a success x
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Big SIs now in emergency brain surgery in Southampton, This will not end well.
Sorry Nick... happy100
What a shitfest 2020 has been... noooo:
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Toxic niece emails to say, "Don't call the hospital to ask about my mum, it will just cause confusion."
(Translation: I want to be in charge of everything.)
I write back, "If I want to call the hospital to enquire about my sister, I will do!"
Angry9: Angry9:
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Toxic niece emails to say, "Don't call the hospital to ask about my mum, it will just cause confusion."
(Translation: I want to be in charge of everything.)
I write back, "If I want to call the hospital to enquire about my sister, I will do!"
Angry9: Angry9:
noooo: and Thumbs:
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Toxic niece emails to say, "Don't call the hospital to ask about my mum, it will just cause confusion."
(Translation: I want to be in charge of everything.)
I write back, "If I want to call the hospital to enquire about my sister, I will do!"
Angry9: Angry9:
What a nasty piece of work trying to stop you enquiring about your own sister evil:
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SHe is still in Twatt and has refused to let husband and kids come for Christmas in case they have Covid!
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Seems like a result for them :thumbsup:
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Seems like a result for them :thumbsup:
lol: lol: lol:
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Big SIs now in emergency brain surgery in Southampton, This will not end well.
Good luck to her. happy100
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What an awful turn of events this is
Kindest of thoughts to you Nick happy100
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Seems like a result for them :thumbsup:
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Seems like a result for them :thumbsup:
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Big Sis out of ICU and may be home by weekend :thumbsup: Care package minimal noooo: Have suggested paid service to her millionaire kids but they are worried about costs Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead cussing:
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Oh great, now her husband has died!! Can this year get any worse?
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Oh great, now her husband has died!! Can this year get any worse?
Oh no that's awful, you said he wasn't well but that's just a grossly unfair turn of events for her
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Oh great, now her husband has died!! Can this year get any worse?
No... noooo:
We have a close friend that was rushed into hospital two weeks ago...
He needed blood and everybody we knew of the same group turned up and donated.
Yesterday he was well enough to start some form of treatment but he tested positive for Covid (obviously caught in horsepickle) so all options are now off... noooo:
WTF?
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Oh great, now her husband has died!! Can this year get any worse?
No... noooo:
We have a close friend that was rushed into hospital two weeks ago...
He needed blood and everybody we knew of the same group turned up and donated.
Yesterday he was well enough to start some form of treatment but he tested positive for Covid (obviously caught in horsepickle) so all options are now off... noooo:
WTF?
Good grief.
I had always believed that Armageddon was a story, now I'm not so sure. noooo:
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Oh Nick sad24:
How awfully sad noooo:
In some ways your sisters alzheimers may be a small blessing at this time x
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Oh great, now her husband has died!! Can this year get any worse?
eeek: noooo:
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Big Sis now in a nursing home: "the nurses seem very kind"
No visiting
Funeral plans in hand for BiL but impossible to attend.
What a fucking nightmare!
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Big Sis now in a nursing home: "the nurses seem very kind"
No visiting
Funeral plans in hand for BiL but impossible to attend.
What a fucking nightmare!
Why impossible to attend? Thought funerals were OK
Probably good that she's in a nursing home though even though the whole situation isn't a good one
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Funeral is a four hour drive (each way from here) Hard to stay overnight. Whatever happens will be grisly without contact as we shall just have to stare at each other from a distance. His daughters both have Covid in the house and my niece will not leave the safety of the Orkneys, so it would just be me and my sister noooo:
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Funeral is a four hour drive (each way from here) Hard to stay overnight. Whatever happens will be grisly without contact as we shall just have to stare at each other from a distance.
Well yes
Funerals by Zoom? Zoomerals?
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Update: Big Sis has asked me to attend the funeral as otherwise it will only be her there! Strict instructions not to tell Pink Sis (feud)
Funeral is at 11.00 a.m., so rather an early start.
Date (Jan 21) coincides with next Willycam (sod's law) so happy to cancel that.
Gets black suit from cleaners.....
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Update: Big Sis has asked me to attend the funeral as otherwise it will only be her there! Strict instructions not to tell Pink Sis (feud)
Funeral is at 11.00 a.m., so rather an early start.
Date (Jan 21) coincides with next Willycam (sod's law) so happy to cancel that.
Gets black suit from cleaners.....
happy100 happy100 happy100
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Update: Big Sis has asked me to attend the funeral as otherwise it will only be her there! Strict instructions not to tell Pink Sis (feud)
Funeral is at 11.00 a.m., so rather an early start.
Date (Jan 21) coincides with next Willycam (sod's law) so happy to cancel that.
Gets black suit from cleaners.....
happy100 happy100 happy100
What a mess. Why can't families call a ceasefire at such times. noooo:
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Update: Big Sis has asked me to attend the funeral as otherwise it will only be her there! Strict instructions not to tell Pink Sis (feud)
Funeral is at 11.00 a.m., so rather an early start.
Date (Jan 21) coincides with next Willycam (sod's law) so happy to cancel that.
Gets black suit from cleaners.....
happy100 happy100 happy100
What a mess. Why can't families call a ceasefire at such times. noooo:
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But right call Nick, she needs you there
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Update: Big Sis has asked me to attend the funeral as otherwise it will only be her there! Strict instructions not to tell Pink Sis (feud)
Funeral is at 11.00 a.m., so rather an early start.
Date (Jan 21) coincides with next Willycam (sod's law) so happy to cancel that.
Gets black suit from cleaners.....
happy100 happy100 happy100
What a mess. Why can't families call a ceasefire at such times. noooo:
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Update: Big Sis has asked me to attend the funeral as otherwise it will only be her there! Strict instructions not to tell Pink Sis (feud)
Funeral is at 11.00 a.m., so rather an early start.
Date (Jan 21) coincides with next Willycam (sod's law) so happy to cancel that.
Gets black suit from cleaners.....
happy100
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Just spoke to Big Sis who is still a bit addled, but going home tomorrow.
Asked her about her live in carer (who is arriving at 11.06 apparently!)
Her name is Jenny. She will do all the cooking, cleaning, bathing, dressing and so on. Trained nurse and trained bereavement counsellor :thumbsup:
Me: Have you met her?
Sis: No,, but I have a pic, she is a negro
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Me: FFS, don't say that! Her name is Jenny
Note to self: Call Jenny
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Just spoke to Big Sis who is still a bit addled, but going home tomorrow.
Asked her about her live in carer (who is arriving at 11.06 apparently!)
Her name is Jenny. She will do all the cooking, cleaning, bathing, dressing and so on. Trained nurse and trained bereavement counsellor :thumbsup:
Me: Have you met her?
Sis: No,, but I have a pic, she is a negro
facepalm: facepalm:
Me: FFS, don't say that! Her name is Jenny
Note to self: Call Jenny
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At least she said negro and not . . . .
And :thumbsup: that she's going home
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Quietly investigating alternative homes in the area, given that her kids are still entirely useless, but biding my time
This looks possible
https://www.mccarthyandstone.co.uk/retirement-properties-for-sale/wayfarer-place-alresford/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=ppc_google&utm_content=dsa_dsa-ad-groups-landing-pages&gclid=CjwKCAiAi_D_BRApEiwASslbJ217QHD-BDBRVDk8Lxn77uhkgUeKzvC1kpsr87VtbBG99dXkVaqg0xoC7EYQAvD_BwE (https://www.mccarthyandstone.co.uk/retirement-properties-for-sale/wayfarer-place-alresford/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=ppc_google&utm_content=dsa_dsa-ad-groups-landing-pages&gclid=CjwKCAiAi_D_BRApEiwASslbJ217QHD-BDBRVDk8Lxn77uhkgUeKzvC1kpsr87VtbBG99dXkVaqg0xoC7EYQAvD_BwE)
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Just spoke to Big Sis who is still a bit addled, but going home tomorrow.
Asked her about her live in carer (who is arriving at 11.06 apparently!)
Her name is Jenny. She will do all the cooking, cleaning, bathing, dressing and so on. Trained nurse and trained bereavement counsellor :thumbsup:
Me: Have you met her?
Sis: No,, but I have a pic, she is a negro
facepalm: facepalm:
Me: FFS, don't say that! Her name is Jenny
Note to self: Call Jenny
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At least she said negro and not . . . .
And :thumbsup: that she's going home
Zactly ..not spear chucker ... I never know what term is trendy to call em now ....and still PC .... rubschin:
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How about calling her Jenny?
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Exactly!!
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Big Sis is home and says Jenny is "lovely" cloud9:
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Big Sis is home and says Jenny is "lovely" cloud9:
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Big Sis is home and says Jenny is "lovely" cloud9:
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Big Sis is home and says Jenny is "lovely" cloud9:
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Good to know she is happier and being cared for cloud9:
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Big Sis is home and says Jenny is "lovely" cloud9:
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Thinking f sending Jenny some chocs. Not sure whether to get milk or darky... whistle:
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Thinking f sending Jenny some chocs. Not sure whether to get milk or darky... whistle:
lol: I'm sure you'll cope
Just don't send her any of this cheese
(https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/news/976/cpsprodpb/BD87/production/_116491584_coon.jpg)
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-55628966
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Thinking f sending Jenny some chocs. Not sure whether to get milk or darky... whistle:
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It is a minefield! scared2:
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Thinking f sending Jenny some chocs. Not sure whether to get milk or darky... whistle:
lol: I'm sure you'll cope
Just don't send her any of this cheese
(https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/news/976/cpsprodpb/BD87/production/_116491584_coon.jpg)
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-55628966
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Jenny caught her trying to get her car out facepalm:
Both sets of car keys now hidden noooo:
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Jenny caught her trying to get her car out facepalm:
Both sets of car keys now hidden noooo:
noooo: and :thumbsup:
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Big Sis is being taken to her doc on Tuesday to "sign some papers". Yup, she is granting Power of Attorney to the Duchess of Twatt! Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead cussing: cussing:
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Big Sis is being taken to her doc on Tuesday to "sign some papers". Yup, she is granting Power of Attorney to the Duchess of Twatt! Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead cussing: cussing:
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Big Sis is being taken to her doc on Tuesday to "sign some papers". Yup, she is granting Power of Attorney to the Duchess of Twatt! Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead cussing: cussing:
noooo: noooo:
You could challenge that if she really is not all with it anymore plus is under stress due to recent events
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The paradox is there in case she is no longer competent to make certain decisions. That is the case. BUT she does not seem to understand what papers she is signing as she is not capable of understanding.
Needless to say, neither the Duchess of Twatt or her husband will be present ::)
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But will be circling like viultures from a safe distance noooo: noooo: noooo:
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I predict a rapid house sale noooo:
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The paradox is there in case she is no longer competent to make certain decisions. That is the case. BUT she does not seem to understand what papers she is signing as she is not capable of understanding.
Needless to say, neither the Duchess of Twatt or her husband will be present ::)
Hopefully the docwoc will be honest and refuse to sign
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Call to Big Sis
I ask if she has heard from her daughter (the Twatt one)
"Only to ask me for my Barclays passwords and pin numbers" facepalm:
cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing:
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Call to Big Sis
I ask if she has heard from her daughter (the Twatt one)
"Only to ask me for my Barclays passwords and pin numbers" facepalm:
cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing:
doublefacepalm:
wouldn't it be sad if someone ratted on the Twatt to Barclays?
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Trouble is, her husband is a QC and a judge!!
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Trouble is, her husband is a QC and a judge!!
Even better, if he knew what was going on he'd get disbarred. eveilgrin: time?
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Revenge is best eaten cold eveilgrin:
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Big Sis reports she has gathered up all her husband's shoes and plans a bonfire eeek:
Should I report this to the Duchess of Twat?
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Big Sis reports she has gathered up all her husband's shoes and plans a bonfire eeek:
Should I report this to the Duchess of Twat?
Tell the Duchess you think she said "all her husband's shares" and see how long it takes her to arrive. eveilgrin:
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eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin:
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Big Sis reports she has gathered up all her husband's shoes and plans a bonfire eeek:
Should I report this to the Duchess of Twat?
Tell the Duchess you think she said "all her husband's shares" and see how long it takes her to arrive. eveilgrin:
happy001
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Big Sis reports that all papers have been expedited and the Duchess of Twatt now has complete control of her bank accounts, investments etc noooo: noooo:
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Big Sis reports that all papers have been expedited and the Duchess of Twatt now has complete control of her bank accounts, investments etc noooo: noooo:
It's not that quick to get PoA. Typically 2 months from sending the forms off IIRC and may be longer in these times
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The Duke of Twatt is a judge and a QC whistle:
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The Duke of Twatt is a judge and a QC whistle:
so 'the higher they fall' applies then
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Big Sis reports major row with Duchess of Twat about money noooo: Duchess objects to her remitting cash to the Duchess's brother to pay for medical treatment (USA) for his young daughter!!
I was VERY careful about my response. Not the time to stir the pot.
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Big Sis reports major row with Duchess of Twat about money noooo: Duchess objects to her remitting cash to the Duchess's brother to pay for medical treatment (USA) for his young daughter!!
I was VERY careful about my response. Not the time to stir the pot.
Tell HRH of Twat that you're sure she'd pay for Twat's ongoing psychiatric care too as clearly it's a pressing need?
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ANd Big Sis has forgotten yesterday's convo noooo: noooo: noooo:
noooo:
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Had to dial 999
All her house phones and her mobile out of charge so no response. She forgets to charge them.
Have suggested to the Duchess of Twatt that she sorts this out! Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
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Had to dial 999
All her house phones and her mobile out of charge so no response. She forgets to charge them.
Have suggested to the Duchess of Twatt that she sorts this out! Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
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Had to dial 999
All her house phones and her mobile out of charge so no response. She forgets to charge them.
Have suggested to the Duchess of Twatt that she sorts this out! Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
noooo: noooo:
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Had to dial 999
All her house phones and her mobile out of charge so no response. She forgets to charge them.
Have suggested to the Duchess of Twatt that she sorts this out! Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
noooo: noooo:
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Big Sis is wearing herself out clearing out cupboards, wardrobes, filing cabinets and the garage!
The stepdaughters called me (they had been down for the day) and intimated that BS is "under pressure" to get the house ready for a quick sale. I sense the hoofprint of the toxic niece. evil:
Needless to say, the Queen of Twatt is not making any contribution to this effort and has cut the carers down to 2 hours a week.
I might have to kill her evil:
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Big Sis is wearing herself out clearing out cupboards, wardrobes, filing cabinets and the garage!
The stepdaughters called me (they had been down for the day) and intimated that BS is "under pressure" to get the house ready for a quick sale. I sense the hoofprint of the toxic niece. evil:
Needless to say, the Queen of Twatt is not making any contribution to this effort and has cut the carers down to 2 hours a week.
I might have to kill her evil:
noooo:
I should mention at this point that everyone at Alibis-R-Us is on furlough
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Oh Joy! Pink Sis drove from here to Winchester today unannounced for a surprise visit to Big Sis!
Big Sis's reaction was, "Fuck off, you aren't coming in."
SHe is presently on the way back noooo:
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noooo: FFS
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This whole thing is turning into a dark soap opera noooo:
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This whole thing is turning into a dark soap opera noooo:
I have to say that my sympathy for your Big Sis plummeted when I read that post
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1. She can't stand Pink Sis
2. She is Covid averse
3. Pink Sis showed up unannounced expecting a big welcome she was never going to get
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The positive is that at least Big Sis can still remember that lol:
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Have you checked to see if she actually has Lasting Power of Attorney or Guardianship? They have to register with the Office of the Public Guardian and you can check to see if someone has one registered but from what I can see your sister wouldn't be able to appoint someone as they have to be both over 18 and have mental capacity to be able to do so. If she has anything then it sounds like she has gained Guardianship which can be cancelled.
If she is a registered Guardian, paying for her niece's medical bills in the US (if they are coming out of the estate), cutting down carers to 2 hours a week and pressuring her to sell up certainly sound like significant concerns that should be reported.
https://www.gov.uk/find-someones-attorney-deputy-or-guardian
https://www.gov.uk/report-concern-about-attorney-deputy-guardian
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Lasting Power of Attorney for Welfare and Finances, handed to her daughter and son in law and signed off in the presence of her GP
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It gathers pace. Big Sis calls. Late last year my late BiL (who favoured electric cars despite being a steam train fan) got rid of his Prius and bought a new Hyundai Ionic.
The Duchess has sent a man to "collect" it as it will help "create space" in the garage.
It seems one of the Duchess's kids needs a new car..... Angry9: Angry9: Angry9: Angry9: Angry9:
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Lasting Power of Attorney is worthless until it has been registered with the OPG and once it has there are safeguards and protections for the vulnerable. If it has been registered then use the procedure to raise your concerns and let the stepdaughters know about it as well.
By law the OPG can investigate concerns over how an attorney has acted since they registered the LPA, such as misuse of the donor’s money or decisions that are not in the donor’s best interests.
Pushing your sister into selling her home, drastically cutting her carer coverage and giving away her possessions are clearly not in her best interests and the US medical costs certainly seem to be misuse of her money.
https://www.gov.uk/guidance/how-we-deal-with-safeguarding-concerns
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The holder of the PoA is her son in law who is a judge and a QC. It was set up ages ago and was activated with a witness signature from her doctor.
She now tells me that she is being taken to view a "retirement home" and that the Duchess is sending Estate Agents round while she is out on Wednesday Banghead Banghead Banghead
Powerless here and furious Angry9: Angry9:
Naked greed is an ugly thing. Not one of her kids or grandkids has gone near her since all this started.
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The holder of the PoA is her son in law who is a judge and a QC. It was set up ages ago and was activated with a witness signature from her doctor.
She now tells me that she is being taken to view a "retirement home" and that the Duchess is sending Estate Agents round while she is out on Wednesday Banghead Banghead Banghead
Powerless here and furious Angry9: Angry9:
Naked greed is an ugly thing. Not one of her kids or grandkids has gone near her since all this started.
You may be powerless but the OPG is not, so contact them, raise your concerns and let them start the investigation procedure. It doesn't matter who is the holder of the PoA or who witnessed it, if they find a case misuse of money and authority then they can act on it up to and including replacing him with someone else.
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Thanks!
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Thanks!
No problem, personally I'd let the stepdaughters know as well so they can raise their own concerns.
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They already have them. Spoke to them yesterday
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And today comes confirmation that the house goes to the stepdaughters and my sister's will only benefits me and her son in California. The Duchess of Twatt gets nuffink and therefore has to pay for or return BiLs car eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin:
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And today comes confirmation that the house goes to the stepdaughters and my sister's will only benefits me and her son in California. The Duchess of Twatt gets nuffink and therefore has to pay for or return BiLs car eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin:
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And today comes confirmation that the house goes to the stepdaughters and my sister's will only benefits me and her son in California. The Duchess of Twatt gets nuffink and therefore has to pay for or return BiLs car eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin:
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Now waiting for the ire and fallout noooo:
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And today comes confirmation that the house goes to the stepdaughters and my sister's will only benefits me and her son in California. The Duchess of Twatt gets nuffink and therefore has to pay for or return BiLs car eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin:
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And today comes confirmation that the house goes to the stepdaughters and my sister's will only benefits me and her son in California. The Duchess of Twatt gets nuffink and therefore has to pay for or return BiLs car eveilgrin: eveilgrin: eveilgrin:
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Once in a while my agnosticism is challenged. cloud9:
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I am on the warpath again evil:
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Oh great! All the power in Big Sis's house has gone off.She doesn't know what to do and is not understanding instructions Banghead Banghead Banghead
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My nephew in California responds:I will FaceTime her on her iPad to see what I can do :thumbsup:
Me: Her power is off. She has no wi fi, or heating, hot water, kitchen appliances, stairlift etc.
Him: Oh........
Banghead Banghead
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My nephew in California responds:I will FaceTime her on her iPad to see what I can do :thumbsup:
Me: Her power is off. She has no wi fi, or heating, hot water, kitchen appliances, stairlift etc.
Him: Oh........
Banghead Banghead
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My nephew in California responds:I will FaceTime her on her iPad to see what I can do :thumbsup:
Me: Her power is off. She has no wi fi, or heating, hot water, kitchen appliances, stairlift etc.
Him: Oh........
Banghead Banghead
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doublefacepalm
Good news Nick.. The Duchess of Twat is allowed to visit now and sort it all out, what could possibly not go right?
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TheDUchess is paying sa state visit on Moving Day. May 21st noooo:
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TheDUchess is paying sa state visit on Moving Day. May 21st noooo:
Watch out for light fingers.
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Big Sis reported last night that she was trying to work out how much each TV channel WEIGHS noooo:
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'tis a worry noooo:
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Big Sis reported last night that she was trying to work out how much each TV channel WEIGHS noooo:
too many pounds a month
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Big SIs reports that she had a lovely FaceTime chat today with our mum. That would be the mum who died in 1997.
I have informed the Duchess and suggested that she gets the quack to get her checked out again.
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Big SIs reports that she had a lovely FaceTime chat today with our mum. That would be the mum who died in 1997.
I have informed the Duchess and suggested that she gets the quack to get her checked out again.
noooo:
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SO! Big Sis had brain surgery at Christmas. No follow up from the hospital.
She is in agony from her hip and also now her back, but is still trying to move house on her own.
No contact from GP.
I suggest that the Duchess should contact the GP
What does the Duchess do? Calls my sister and says I am "stirring things up".
No, you entitled bitch. YOu have legal responsiblity for your mother's welfare. Call the fucking GP!!
cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing:
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noooo:
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SO! Big Sis had brain surgery at Christmas. No follow up from the hospital.
She is in agony from her hip and also now her back, but is still trying to move house on her own.
No contact from GP.
I suggest that the Duchess should contact the GP
What does the Duchess do? Calls my sister and says I am "stirring things up".
No, you entitled bitch. YOu have legal responsiblity for your mother's welfare. Call the fucking GP!!
cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing:
noooo: noooo: noooo:
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Big Sis informs me she went to the Post Office yesterday. She lives on top of a steep hill and walks on a zimmer frame (JOM should know the PO concerned). Took her 30 mins to get there and 45 to get back. She was surprised to find the PO shut on a Monday. Pointed out that it was a Bank Holiday facepalm: facepalm:
Going down to Winchester next week to sort her our prior to her move and take her out for lunch and stuff. No sign of the Duchess of Twat angry041: angry041:
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Big Sis informs me she went to the Post Office yesterday. She lives on top of a steep hill and walks on a zimmer frame (JOM should know the PO concerned). Took her 30 mins to get there and 45 to get back. She was surprised to find the PO shut on a Monday. Pointed out that it was a Bank Holiday facepalm: facepalm:
Going down to Winchester next week to sort her our prior to her move and take her out for lunch and stuff. No sign of the Duchess of Twat angry041: angry041:
:thumbsup: good plan and noooo:
Maybe the Ruski's offer an online service to order tactical nuclear strikes on Scottish islands. One of BM's neighbours prolly can sort it.
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My nephew gets in touch from Kuala Lumpur. He says they want me to find out all the passwords to my Sis's computer and e mail and let them know so they "can keep an eye on her". rubschin: rubschin:
Must have a chat to Big Sis about this...
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My nephew gets in touch from Kuala Lumpur. He says they want me to find out all the passwords to my Sis's computer and e mail and let them know so they "can keep an eye on her". rubschin: rubschin:
Must have a chat to Big Sis about this...
noooo: noooo: noooo:
Send them some made up obscene ones and then when they don't work say she changes her passwords everyday to deter would be scammers
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My nephew gets in touch from Kuala Lumpur. He says they want me to find out all the passwords to my Sis's computer and e mail and let them know so they "can keep an eye on her". rubschin: rubschin:
Must have a chat to Big Sis about this...
noooo: noooo: noooo:
Send them some made up obscene ones and then when they don't work say she changes her passwords everyday to deter would be scammers
Yes passwords some like :
Donkey_Sanctuary
Cats__League
Dogs _Trust
Barnowl_Trust
that money will be disappearing before their eyes lol: :thumbsup:
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Just £3 a week..............? rubschin:
Going down Tuesday to sort a few things out and take her out for lunch and stuff :thumbsup:
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Just £3 a week..............? rubschin:
Going down Tuesday to sort a few things out and take her out for lunch and stuff :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: good move
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She wanted me to help with packing eeek: Fortunately the house movers have to pack, as they are covered by insurance, so I am off that hook :thumbsup:
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The Duchess of Twat, aware that I am cooking whilst there, has asked me for a shopping list for Ocado for delivery on the 12th. I have made it EXPENSIVE eveilgrin:
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The Duchess of Twat, aware that I am cooking whilst there, has asked me for a shopping list for Ocado for delivery on the 12th. I have made it EXPENSIVE eveilgrin:
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The Duchess has changed my sister's e mail address and mobile phone number (which she refuses to disclose) to assert total control of her comms.
cussing: cussing: cussing:
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The Duchess has changed my sister's e mail address and mobile phone number (which she refuses to disclose) to assert total control of her comms.
cussing: cussing: cussing:
Jeez she is an oppressive bitch first class isn't she
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I am treading carefully. Off to Winchester tomorrow and will get the necessary info from Big Sis eveilgrin:
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I am treading carefully. Off to Winchester tomorrow and will get the necessary info from Big Sis eveilgrin:
Getting the Duchess's husband struck off for abuse of LPA?
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Following another call trying to stop the forthcoming Garage Sale Banghead Banghead Banghead
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Following another call trying to stop the forthcoming Garage Sale Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
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SUggested we go for a trip to the seaside tomorrow. I asked if there was anywhere in particular she would like to go.
"Cornwall".
noooo:
Might go to Lymington :thumbsup:
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Think it's going to rain
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I have been trying to call Big Sis since I got home to reassure her that I am safe. No reply.
She calls. "Are you OK?? I have not heard from you." She is distressed. Why
Because the Duchess of Twat has changed her number and told no one, including Big Sis who is now agitated as none of her friends can call her!! cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing:
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Just a thought but does duchess believe that Big Sis can use a phone to dial out? The cynic in me says no.
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She called me and the new number came up!! She had no clue it had been changed Banghead Banghead Banghead
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I have been trying to call Big Sis since I got home to reassure her that I am safe. No reply.
She calls. "Are you OK?? I have not heard from you." She is distressed. Why
Because the Duchess of Twat has changed her number and told no one, including Big Sis who is now agitated as none of her friends can call her!! cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing:
https://www.gov.uk/report-concern-about-attorney-deputy-guardian
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She called me and the new number came up!! She had no clue it had been changed Banghead Banghead Banghead
I've been saying this for a while now Nick but if you haven't already then you need to contact the Office of the Public Guardian and tell them what's been going on, if you have contacted them you need to keep updating them on incidents like this.
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If this goes on beyond next week's move I shall have to escalate things. evil:
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If this goes on beyond next week's move I shall have to escalate things. evil:
A tactical nuclear strike on Twatt?
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The Duchess graciously returned to London yesterday, but will not bestow a state visit to her mum until Wednesday, for some reason. The move happens on Thursday.
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Big Sis now installed in new home. No working phone numbers and the Duchess of Twatt has returned to London, leaving her mum to unpack boxes cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing:
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Big Sis now installed in new home. No working phone numbers and the Duchess of Twatt has returned to London, leaving her mum to unpack boxes cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing:
noooo:
Get her deposed
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Big Sis collapsed during move and is in hospital with exhaustion and high blood pressure. The Duchess has returned to the Orkneys cussing: cussing: cussing:
What is wrong with that bitch?
Lovely stepdaughters are there unpacking stuff and liaising with hospital. They are calling me later.
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Big Sis collapsed during move and is in hospital with exhaustion and high blood pressure. The Duchess has returned to the Orkneys cussing: cussing: cussing:
What is wrong with that bitch?
Lovely stepdaughters are there unpacking stuff and liaising with hospital. They are calling me later.
noooo:
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Big Sis collapsed during move and is in hospital with exhaustion and high blood pressure. The Duchess has returned to the Orkneys cussing: cussing: cussing:
What is wrong with that bitch?
Lovely stepdaughters are there unpacking stuff and liaising with hospital. They are calling me later.
Shop the bitch
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Big Sis reports that the retirement place organised a BBQ today and she went :thumbsup:
What did you have?
Long pause..................................I don't know
Did you meet any nice people?
Yes
Anyone in particular?
Long pause..............................I don't know
Have you heard from your kids?
No
cussing: cussing: cussing:
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noooo:
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Big Sis reports that the retirement place organised a BBQ today and she went :thumbsup:
What did you have?
Long pause..................................I don't know
Did you meet any nice people?
Yes
Anyone in particular?
Long pause..............................I don't know
Have you heard from your kids?
No
cussing: cussing: cussing:
happy100
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Called Big sis
Are you OK?
I am OK
Have you been out?
I have been out
Have you met people?
I have met people
Has your daughter (the Duchess of Twat) seen you or been in touch?
NO
Are you OK there?
I don;t know where I am
Angry9: Angry9: Angry9: Angry9: Angry9: Angry9:
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noooo:
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The stepdaughters call. They have found about a dozen albums of family photos that got left behind in the move.
They asked the Duchess what to do with them.
"Bin them, " says she cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing: They include photos of my parents and other family members!!
I have asked them to save the photos for me to show Big Sis when I next see her evil: evil:
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The stepdaughters call. They have found about a dozen albums of family photos that got left behind in the move.
They asked the Duchess what to do with them.
"Bin them, " says she cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing: They include photos of my parents and other family members!!
I have asked them to save the photos for me to show Big Sis when I next see her evil: evil:
What a cow
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The stepdaughters call. They have found about a dozen albums of family photos that got left behind in the move.
They asked the Duchess what to do with them.
"Bin them, " says she cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing: They include photos of my parents and other family members!!
I have asked them to save the photos for me to show Big Sis when I next see her evil: evil:
What a cow
What Steve said
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The stepdaughters call. They have found about a dozen albums of family photos that got left behind in the move.
They asked the Duchess what to do with them.
"Bin them, " says she cussing: cussing: cussing: cussing: They include photos of my parents and other family members!!
I have asked them to save the photos for me to show Big Sis when I next see her evil: evil:
What a cow
What Steve said
ditto
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Having changed my sister's landline and mobile numbers AND givern her an iPhone that she cannot work, the Duchess has clearly been on a visit. A new message on both voicemails in the Duchess voice says, "Thank you for calling Big Sis. There is no point leaving a message as she does not know how to retrieve them, Goodbye."
Is this a deliberate strategy to isolate her further or just ordinary cruelty? evil:
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Having changed my sister's landline and mobile numbers AND givern her an iPhone that she cannot work, the Duchess has clearly been on a visit. A new message on both voicemails in the Duchess voice says, "Thank you for calling Big Sis. There is no point leaving a message as she does not know how to retrieve them, Goodbye."
Is this a deliberate strategy to isolate her further or just ordinary cruelty? evil:
both?
There's got to be some way to expose all this and have her become isolated from all her circle
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Having changed my sister's landline and mobile numbers AND givern her an iPhone that she cannot work, the Duchess has clearly been on a visit. A new message on both voicemails in the Duchess voice says, "Thank you for calling Big Sis. There is no point leaving a message as she does not know how to retrieve them, Goodbye."
Is this a deliberate strategy to isolate her further or just ordinary cruelty? evil:
What cold callous cow. I feel for you Nick
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Pink Sis went to see Big Sis yesterday. Took one look at her and dialled 999.
Big Sis now in hospital noooo:
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Pink Sis went to see Big Sis yesterday. Took one look at her and dialled 999.
Big Sis now in hospital noooo:
noooo:
Hope she's better soon.
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The Duchess of Twat e mails:
Update from Fraility intervention team- mum will not leave hospital until she is medically fit.
She has agreed to go to a residential placement. She could be there for a week or a month or more.
She will then be assessed for dementia etc when her pain has improved & a care package will be put in place.,
Um, isn't this what I told you in August last year you utter bitch!!?? Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
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The Duchess of Twat e mails:
Update from Fraility intervention team- mum will not leave hospital until she is medically fit.
She has agreed to go to a residential placement. She could be there for a week or a month or more.
She will then be assessed for dementia etc when her pain has improved & a care package will be put in place.,
Um, isn't this what I told you in August last year you utter bitch!!?? Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
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The Duchess of Twat e mails:
Update from Fraility intervention team- mum will not leave hospital until she is medically fit.
She has agreed to go to a residential placement. She could be there for a week or a month or more.
She will then be assessed for dementia etc when her pain has improved & a care package will be put in place.,
Um, isn't this what I told you in August last year you utter bitch!!?? Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
noooo: noooo:
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The Duchess of Twat e mails:
Update from Fraility intervention team- mum will not leave hospital until she is medically fit.
She has agreed to go to a residential placement. She could be there for a week or a month or more.
She will then be assessed for dementia etc when her pain has improved & a care package will be put in place.,
Um, isn't this what I told you in August last year you utter bitch!!?? Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
noooo: noooo:
noooo: noooo: noooo:
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The Duchess of Twat e mails:
Update from Fraility intervention team- mum will not leave hospital until she is medically fit.
She has agreed to go to a residential placement. She could be there for a week or a month or more.
She will then be assessed for dementia etc when her pain has improved & a care package will be put in place.,
Um, isn't this what I told you in August last year you utter bitch!!?? Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
noooo: noooo:
noooo: noooo: noooo:
noooo: noooo: noooo: noooo:
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Managed to get through to Big Sis. She is in a dementia ward. SOunded like Bedlam. Just lots of screaming and shouting in the background noooo:
Established that visiting is permitted (checked with hospital) and heading that way on Friday. Dread to think what I will find.
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I inform the Duchess that I am visiting on Friday. Her reply? Perhaps you can take some stuff from her flat to "wherever she has moved to". Um, shouldn't you know where you mother is?
Reply. "I can take other stuff when I see her in September"
SEPTEMBER?????
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I inform the Duchess that I am visiting on Friday. Her reply? Perhaps you can take some stuff from her flat to "wherever she has moved to". Um, shouldn't you know where you mother is?
Reply. "I can take other stuff when I see her in September"
SEPTEMBER?????
;D
How about tell the Duchess that the Guardian have asked you to write an article on abuses of PoA and is it OK to use her name?
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The DUchess suggests that she may need clean clothing Banghead Banghead
I suggest that this is her responsibility but that I can stop off at M&S en route if she gives me a list of items in the correct size and she can reimburse me later. She is not happy about this cussing: cussing: cussing:
All my Sis has asked for via text is "a boxcar" rubschin:
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Ward Sister calls from the hospital. The Duchess has called them to tell them that I must not be allowed to visit Big Sis tomorrow. She claims I will upset her.
Ward Sister says "I have thanked her for her advice but told her that she has no authority to do this. WHat time do you want to visit?"
I am thinking of hiring a contract killer
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Ward Sister calls from the hospital. The Duchess has called them to tell them that I must not be allowed to visit Big Sis tomorrow. She claims I will upset her.
Ward Sister says "I have thanked her for her advice but told her that she has no authority to do this. WHat time do you want to visit?"
I am thinking of hiring a contract killer
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Ward Sister calls from the hospital. The Duchess has called them to tell them that I must not be allowed to visit Big Sis tomorrow. She claims I will upset her.
Ward Sister says "I have thanked her for her advice but told her that she has no authority to do this. WHat time do you want to visit?"
I am thinking of hiring a contract killer
Hope your visit goes well Nick happy100
I'll chip in for a contract killer, what a sad trail
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Dementia wards are not pleasant, especially the screaming, the commodes and the heat.
Took Big Sis toiletries and clean nighties, towels and flannels.
Had to show her how to cool herself with baby wipes.
The nighties were too small, so have to return them to M&S
Stepdaughters going today but the DUCHESS has FORBIDDEN them to take nighties!! WHY??
I am fit to kill
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You done well
Why don't the Stepdaughters tell the Twattoholic to fuck right off?
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They are scared of her
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This is grim reading !! Your poor sis - so sorry Nick ; this must be so tough. I'm also happy to chip in to 'the fund' .
We can also arrange for some festival of undesirables to rock up in Twatt for a few days of rave and deprave whistle:
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They are scared of her
Sadly there's only one way to treat a bully, make them scared back
Surely you could start a rumour in her husband's legal circles about a newspaper investigation
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I wrote to my nephew in KL last night
"It should be no surprise to you by now that I am very concerned about your mum (I saw her again yesterday) and even more concerned about the way that Susan is handling this (yes, thin ice). Your stepsisters are being wonderful but they are terrified of Susan, They told me today that they dare not collect nightdresses from WP as this is not on "the list". Incidentally, Susan prohibited them from talking to me last year when I first brought this up. We have happily ignored this command.
I am not sure if you are fully aware of what is going on. I am acutely aware that this seems to be some sort of minefield, but my concern is for my sister and her welfare.
I have refrained from posting about my visit yesterday as last time I did this I got rebuked for being "negative". Frankly, what Susan is doing is neglect verging on abuse. There, I said it. I have thought this for nearly a year, since she first told your mum that I was "going around saying she had Alzheimer's". Perhaps Susan should go and see her. I took her toiletries and fruit and new towels and things yesterday.
OK
She is in a shit place
She can barely speak
She was dirty and cannot wash herself. She gets showered twice a week!
She cannot now walk
She cannot cook
I had to show her how to use baby wipes across her face and neck to cool herself
Her clothes are soiled
SHe is in great pain
I suggest:
Private care post hospital release
Massive care package on return to WP OR Private residential care
Give me a call if you want to discuss this
As ever, I urge you to get to see her asap and maybe someone should sub Paul for a flight over too, so that he can. She is not going to improve and she will deteriorate. A bit of gentle leg pulling can elicit a small twinkle in the eye, but that needs close personal contact.
In the end yesterday all I could do was to sit and hold her hand. Please try to get to see her. And put some pressure on Susan. "
His reply in full:
I am heavily involved in the sale of my oil exploration company in the USA and need to be able to travel to the US at short notice any time between now and probably December. I can’t do this from the UK so there are a basket of issues that are holding me back.
Thanks for the note and all the best.
David
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Jesus how despairing that must make you feel noooo:
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I am so angry on your behalf. evil:
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Thanks. I am seething and powerless. What is wrong with these utter bastards??
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Could you contact Social Services and report the abuse? Because abuse is what it is
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I am considering several options
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Fuck me Nick, that makes appalling reading. Take care fella
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Big Sis has been moved to Andover. She is very sick. The DUchess of Twat has decreed no visitors in case she want to visit. I have told her to fuck off angel1
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Big Sis has been moved to Andover. She is very sick. The DUchess of Twat has decreed no visitors in case she want to visit. I have told her to fuck off angel1
Sorry to hear that, hopefully she can improve
And :thumbsup: re the 'fuck off'
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I manage to raise Big Sis on a different number at the hospital
She says, "I can't talk now, my brother is here."
sad24: sad24:
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I manage to raise Big Sis on a different number at the hospital
She says, "I can't talk now, my brother is here."
sad24: sad24:
happy100 happy100
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I manage to raise Big Sis on a different number at the hospital
She says, "I can't talk now, my brother is here."
sad24: sad24:
noooo: noooo: noooo:
This all seems to be a very rapid decline for just dementia, is something else affecting her?
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She is on morphine for her broken hip
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She is on morphine for her broken hip
Ah, probably the lesser of two evils
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My nephew has finally made it over from Kuala Lumpur and went to visit. I asked him how she was
Very unwell. Not sure if she can function at home but let’s hope. The hospital environment is very depressing and mum needs to get out as soon as possible. We delivered clean clothes yesterday and took away the old. Mum was in the same clothes for the 3 days I was there which I was appalled at plus she had nothing clean to wear.
I asked who had been in charge of her welfare whistle:
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My nephew has finally made it over from Kuala Lumpur and went to visit. I asked him how she was
Very unwell. Not sure if she can function at home but let’s hope. The hospital environment is very depressing and mum needs to get out as soon as possible. We delivered clean clothes yesterday and took away the old. Mum was in the same clothes for the 3 days I was there which I was appalled at plus she had nothing clean to wear.
I asked who had been in charge of her welfare whistle:
noooo: sad..
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noooo: noooo:
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Called the hospital. "Oh no, she went home yesterday!" eeek:
Did some checking around, she was taken home in an ambulance, wheeled to her flat and left there, My niece did not drive down from W London to settle her in, do any shopping or help her in any way. I gather a neighbour she barely knows made her some dinner!!
cussing:
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Just called Big Sis at home
Call was answered by a "carer" who had gone round and found her passed out on the floor Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead Banghead
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noooo: noooo: noooo:
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She is back in hospital noooo:
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She is back in hospital noooo:
Not a great shock and probably best right now
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Big Sis managed to text me today to send me birthday greetings
Sadly, it is her birthday tomorrow, not mine
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Big Sis managed to text me today to send me birthday greetings
Sadly, it is her birthday tomorrow, not mine
Seems to be one of the first things to go that. We got so many birthday cards from my mother, all on the wrong days
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Nephew has taken over. She is going home Tuesday with 24/7 live in care indefinitely (she has a spare bedroom). I am seeing her Friday. I suspect nephew has given the Duchess a good verbal duffing up cloud9:
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Nephew has taken over. She is going home Tuesday with 24/7 live in care indefinitely (she has a spare bedroom). I am seeing her Friday. I suspect nephew has given the Duchess a good verbal duffing up cloud9:
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Nephew has taken over. She is going home Tuesday with 24/7 live in care indefinitely (she has a spare bedroom). I am seeing her Friday. I suspect nephew has given the Duchess a good verbal duffing up cloud9:
:thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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The care package never materialised as no one will pay for it.
The Duchess wants to get 24 hour live in care on the NHS. She is bonkers.
The retirement flats where Sis lives will not have her back without a 24 hour care package
The Duchess has effectively made my sister homeless.
She remains in hospital in Basingstoke!!
Angry9:
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noooo:
get her deposed
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It goes on. I wrote to the Duchess and gave her both barrels.
Instead of replying to me, she called her mum in hospital and said I was being rude to her and that she was very upset Banghead Banghead
She is 58 FFS
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Now in a rather nice nursing home and she seems stablised :thumbsup:
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Now in a rather nice nursing home and she seems stablised :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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Now in a rather nice nursing home and she seems stablised :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
And :thumbsup: to whoever made that happen
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What a relief for you Nick :thumbsup:
I hope she settles there cloud9:
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Now in a rather nice nursing home and she seems stablised :thumbsup:
Thumbs: Thumbs:
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Now in a rather nice nursing home and she seems stablised :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
And :thumbsup: to whoever made that happen
Social Services
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Now in a rather nice nursing home and she seems stablised :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
And :thumbsup: to whoever made that happen
Social Services
Good for them :thumbsup: Hopefully they can now get the Twatts deposed
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Just spoke to Big Sis. All she wanted to know was how Don was.
He was her first husband who died over 20 years ago. noooo:
Going to see her at Christmas as the Duchess of Twatt can't be arsed to have her at their London mansion for the day Angry9:
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Something just occurred to me and it may be worth mentioning it to Social Services if they are on the case now and likely investigating her standard of care to date. Has the Duchess been claiming carer's allowance?
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Thanks, but have no way of knowing or finding out
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You don't but Social Services have access to the information. If/when they do start their investigation mention it to them as a concern.
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Just spoke to Big Sis. All she wanted to know was how Don was.
He was her first husband who died over 20 years ago. noooo:
Going to see her at Christmas as the Duchess of Twatt can't be arsed to have her at their London mansion for the day Angry9:
noooo:
FWIW (judging on the experience of my mother) going to see her in her home at Christmas is probably better for your sister than her having to travel that day.
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Had planned to see Big Sis on December 27 but new nursing home rules require 3 nominated visitors. The Duchess has bagged all three for her and her daughters who never visit Angry9: Angry9: Banghead Banghead Banghead
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Had planned to see Big Sis on December 27 but new nursing home rules require 3 nominated visitors. The Duchess has bagged all three for her and her daughters who never visit Angry9: Angry9: Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
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Had planned to see Big Sis on December 27 but new nursing home rules require 3 nominated visitors. The Duchess has bagged all three for her and her daughters who never visit Angry9: Angry9: Banghead Banghead Banghead
What a f$cking cow. So sorry Nick
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Had planned to see Big Sis on December 27 but new nursing home rules require 3 nominated visitors. The Duchess has bagged all three for her and her daughters who never visit Angry9: Angry9: Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
noooo: noooo: and what JOM said
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Had planned to see Big Sis on December 27 but new nursing home rules require 3 nominated visitors. The Duchess has bagged all three for her and her daughters who never visit Angry9: Angry9: Banghead Banghead Banghead
noooo:
noooo: noooo: and what JOM said
noooo: noooo: noooo: cry:
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Are you on speaking terms with either of her daughters. If they don't visit you can always see if they can contact the home and nominate you in their place. rubschin:
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Chips off the old block noooo:
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See if you can get a copy of the rules then you can check and see if the nominations are permanent or temporary or if there are any loopholes you can use.
On the other hand it will take a longer approach but give it a while and then try reminding the home that they have a duty of care and the mental health of your sister is going to be helped by the home giving nominations to relatives who can actually be bothered to visit.
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Thanks, I am pursuing that angle already as the Duchess is not popular with the care home staff eveilgrin:
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See if you can get a copy of the rules then you can check and see if the nominations are permanent or temporary or if there are any loopholes you can use.
On the other hand it will take a longer approach but give it a while and then try reminding the home that they have a duty of care and the mental health of your sister is going to be helped by the home giving nominations to relatives who can actually be bothered to visit.
Turn up in a dress and insist you are one of the daughters, then dare the staff to discriminate against you.
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See if you can get a copy of the rules then you can check and see if the nominations are permanent or temporary or if there are any loopholes you can use.
On the other hand it will take a longer approach but give it a while and then try reminding the home that they have a duty of care and the mental health of your sister is going to be helped by the home giving nominations to relatives who can actually be bothered to visit.
Turn up in a dress and insist you are one of the daughters, then dare the staff to discriminate against you.
;D
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See if you can get a copy of the rules then you can check and see if the nominations are permanent or temporary or if there are any loopholes you can use.
On the other hand it will take a longer approach but give it a while and then try reminding the home that they have a duty of care and the mental health of your sister is going to be helped by the home giving nominations to relatives who can actually be bothered to visit.
Turn up in a dress and insist you are one of the daughters, then dare the staff to discriminate against you.
;D
;D Thumbs:
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Did a deal with the nursing home who are pissed off with the DUchess blocking appointments but not visiting and going to see Big Sis Sunday.
Staying over with my old mate Chris Gosden who is now Professor of Archaeology at Oxford and therefore officilally posh :thumbsup:
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Did a deal with the nursing home who are pissed off with the DUchess blocking appointments but not visiting and going to see Big Sis Sunday.
Staying over with my old mate Chris Gosden who is now Professor of Archaeology at Oxford and therefore officilally posh :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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Did a deal with the nursing home who are pissed off with the DUchess blocking appointments but not visiting and going to see Big Sis Sunday.
Staying over with my old mate Chris Gosden who is now Professor of Archaeology at Oxford and therefore officilally posh :thumbsup:
Thought that was a woman's job ... rubschin: talking about digging up the past ... whistle:
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drumroll:
Foggy on the warpath?
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Sadly Nursing Home has now gone into Lockdown so this is just a weekend in Oxford now Banghead Banghead
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Sadly Nursing Home has now gone into Lockdown so this is just a weekend in Oxford now Banghead Banghead
noooo:
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Except the Duchess of Twatt may have lied!! Waiting for a call back from the Nursing HOme
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She lied. I am going on SUnday :thumbsup:
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That's despicable noooo:
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Yes, she is a bitch
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It's only her prevoius track record that makes this believeable Nick. I really feel for you happy100
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She lied. I am going on SUnday :thumbsup:
:thumbsup:
But what Uncle and JOM and you said.
How did the cunting bitch find out you were going to prompt the lying cow into inventing that lockdown story?
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The Home must have told her that I had booked in for tomorrow
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The Home must have told her that I had booked in for tomorrow
Not good by the home to have a sneak on board
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Saw Big SIs who has not improved. Took some pics and sent them to the Duchess eveilgrin:
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Saw Big SIs who has not improved. Took some pics and sent them to the Duchess eveilgrin:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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Saw Big SIs who has not improved. Took some pics and sent them to the Duchess eveilgrin:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
But sad that she's not improved noooo:
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Big Sis "escaped" from Nursing Home, set off along the road, fell over, was taken to A&E. Six stitches in her face noooo:
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Big Sis "escaped" from Nursing Home, set off along the road, fell over, was taken to A&E. Six stitches in her face noooo:
cry:
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Big Sis "escaped" from Nursing Home, set off along the road, fell over, was taken to A&E. Six stitches in her face noooo:
cry:
noooo: noooo:
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happy100 happy100
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Spoke to Big Sis on Facetime. Told her she had Aphasia like Bruce Willis :thumbsup: Advised her to buy a string vest. Got a laugh cloud9:
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Spoke to Big Sis on Facetime. Told her she had Aphasia like Bruce Willis :thumbsup: Advised her to buy a string vest. Got a laugh cloud9:
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Spoke to Big Sis on Facetime. Told her she had Aphasia like Bruce Willis :thumbsup: Advised her to buy a string vest. Got a laugh cloud9:
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Spoke to Big Sis on Facetime. Told her she had Aphasia like Bruce Willis :thumbsup: Advised her to buy a string vest. Got a laugh cloud9:
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Spoke to Big Sis on Facetime. Told her she had Aphasia like Bruce Willis :thumbsup: Advised her to buy a string vest. Got a laugh cloud9:
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Saw her today. Took her some cans of G&T. She has gone downhill a lot since I last saw her noooo:
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Saw her today. Took her some cans of G&T. She has gone downhill a lot since I last saw her noooo:
noooo: noooo: sorry to hear Nick
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So sorry to here Nick happy100 happy100
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Parked Nod at the Cart and Horses while I went to the nursing home ;D
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Parked Nod at the Cart and Horses while I went to the nursing home ;D
(https://i.postimg.cc/ygv3HrPV/do-you-think-thats-wise-wilson-2.jpg) (https://postimg.cc/ygv3HrPV)
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It was not. Three bladder stops en route evil:
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Saw Big Sis
Shrunken
Slack jawed
Dead eyes
She didn't recognise me
Frankly, apart from her pulse she is all but dead noooo:
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Saw Big Sis
Shrunken
Slack jawed
Dead eyes
She didn't recognise me
Frankly, apart from her pulse she is all but dead noooo:
So sorry Nick... cry:
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Saw Big Sis
Shrunken
Slack jawed
Dead eyes
She didn't recognise me
Frankly, apart from her pulse she is all but dead noooo:
So sorry Nick... cry:
noooo: noooo: noooo:
Awful time for you Nick but somewhere in there is still a part of your big Sis so you've done the right thing making all that effort