So has a wumman ever chatted you up and how did that go ???
Not looking for hints or anyfink - I would never have the nerve even if I thought someone was drop dead gorgeous 
SWWLTBO was working for the same company as me. She knew my marriage was going tits up and she was very helpful in covering my absences from night shifts while I went home and made sure the kids were OK after Mrs S#1 moved out.
When things had settled down I suggested I should take her to dinner as a thankyou. That was honestly my sole intent. Feelings far too raw to be looking for anything or anyone else.
Anywhoo she lived in London and worked in the London office and I lived and worked in Milton Keynes. She agreed to go out for dinner and when I dropped her back home she invited me up to her flat for a coffee. I really had every intention of driving back to MK but we sat talking until gone midnight and then she said "You've got three choices. Drive home, sleep on the settee here or sleep with me ...... Up to you".
She pulled!