Mine said that I had been a good husband and father but that I had thought with my bollox and followed wherever they led me. 
Sounds like she thought that was a bad thing? 
My thought at the time I must confess.
Like I told her "If I want Lobster Thermidor I go to a restaurant because I don't get it at home ~ ergo if I want a bit of "extras" then the rest naturally follows"
I'll never understand wimmin. She had just taken me for the house and contents, 50% of all insurances and pension plans (all had to be cashed in). I was left wth a beat up Jag, a suitcase full of books and another with my clothes in plus a commitment to pay maintenance until the yougest chld was 18. AND she was the one crying? I even paid for lunch after the hearing.
