Beyond DNR

[Nick]

DNR only covers not getting CPR if your heart stops. Apparently there is a further stage which specifies what you want done or not done in the event of any other medical conditions. There is a lot to think about….

[Barman]

Praps we could have a Poll and decide which boxes you should tick like...? 

[Nick]

 

[Steve]

[Uncle Mort]

CPR only keeps the blood flowing until the medics get the heart started again. It can lead to brain damage. I would hate to end up a drooling idiot. Worse would be a fully functioning brain but total physical immobility.

After my stroke I was bedridden,  I had a catheter to drain my piss, wore a nappy and was cleaned up by the nurses. My motor functions were very limited and I had to be fed by a carer as I couldn't use a knife and fork. But it was bearable as I knew time and therapy would restore my faculties. However, if that was permanent, I would prefer to end it all.

Where does DNR end and assisted suicide begin?

[Nick]

The Jewish Lady Vicar has agreed to act as my “advocate”. Basically, she has my mandate to tell a hospital to switch me off or withdraw all medication.

[Uncle Mort]

A God botherer, good choice 

An Advocate doesn't sound like she has the final decision but it better than nothing.

[Nick]

She’s an atheist vicar. The role of the advocate is to confirm my instructions. She had her husband switched off about three years ago 

[Steve]

CPR only keeps the blood flowing until the medics get the heart started again. It can lead to brain damage. I would hate to end up a drooling idiot. Worse would be a fully functioning brain but total physical immobility.

After my stroke I was bedridden,  I had a catheter to drain my piss, wore a nappy and was cleaned up by the nurses. My motor functions were very limited and I had to be fed by a carer as I couldn't use a knife and fork. But it was bearable as I knew time and therapy would restore my faculties. However, if that was permanent, I would prefer to end it all.

Where does DNR end and assisted suicide begin?

What a thought provoking post Uncle   

Not sure what my considered thoughts are, I once resuscitated a cat, don't think that makes me any expert.  We did buy a defibrillator last year, think that indicates I'm more on the 'unless absolutely certain then resus' side.

That said, having that person you trust as an advocate seems the best option for you Nick.  What's the difference between that and them having your Health and Welfare power of attorney?

[Nick]

The PoA stuff is already set up with my Executor. He and the JLV know each other