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Title: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 09, 2009, 10:27:27 AM
I work from home. Sometimes I am frantically bizzy and stay up all night to meet deadlines. At other times I have fook all to do. Between 6 and 10 this morning I have communicated with various clients (one more to go) who all owe me things. I owe nothing except some invoices which I shall do shortly.

After that I can sit here and play about on the VP or just relax in the Rug Room and watch a  crap film. But Mrs Nick is slaving at werk and I feel oddly guilty about doing nothing. Oh yes, I will cook later, and sort out washing.

With werk in hand and werk invoiced for I have enough in the bank to not worry too much till about March 2011 about cashflow and by then something else will turn up. So, should I pretend to werk (pretend to myself that is) or just put my feet up?

I imagine many here (aside from our sadly unemployed brethren - to whom my apologies) may also feel odd about bunking off. What do you do?
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Uncle Mort on September 09, 2009, 10:37:19 AM
The problem with being in full time employment is not being able to get all the household chores done, everything either has to be packed in the weekend or a day's holiday taken. Example, the boiler is due it's annual service but I haven't been able to take a day off.

Count yourself lucky.

You could always take up a hobby. Cake making and model railways comes to mind.  ;)
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 09, 2009, 10:39:47 AM
I do no chores till about 4 then it's all systems go. But you are right about routine werkmen and stuff. That is easy.

Oh and
 cussing:

I may go to Ainsdale and take photographs!
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Snoopy on September 09, 2009, 10:45:51 AM
As you know I pretend to work by being involved in a number of local committees.
Apart from editing and publishing the village magazine (5 days work every other month) I also sit on a couple of fund raising committees, for both I act as Secretary as I am available during the day and have 'pooter etc. I get paid expenses and that takes care of my telephone bills (including broadband). The magazine pays for my 'pooters and printers, ink, paper and stamps etc. I am a Trustee of the charity that runs the village hall and also act as the Board of Trustees Secretary and Treasurer which means one day a month I do their invoices (to people who rent the rooms at the hall for various functions), the banking, pay any bills that come in and keep the books.
I do a little writing and a lot of family history research. I occasionally speak at various venues on the subjects that interest me. The likes of the WI, the Round Table, The RAOB, etc all pay expenses (I charge a flat £25 for 40 minutes and usually get a free lunch or supper)
What with that and my share of the Home Education of the Boys plus playing in here life is pretty full. I sometimes wonder how I found time to go out to work. Seriously I do all this to fill my time as I hated being forced out of work and into an early retirement. The choice was replace work with something else or sit in the chair and wait to die.


A quick edit to add ~ I do see Uncle's problem and that is one big advantage to the whole family and probably my biggest contribution in that I am here to deal with all manner of things that otherwise would have to be crammed into weekends (which nobody wants to do)
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 09, 2009, 10:46:38 AM
OK. I argued with myself and lost.

Crap film.

I now await the crap film watched in the daytime police  scared2:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Miss Demeanour on September 09, 2009, 11:03:31 AM
You could spend the afternoon making a home made anniversary card  whistle:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 09, 2009, 11:10:38 AM
I succumbed and did online Interflora  evil:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Miss Demeanour on September 09, 2009, 11:12:22 AM

Good Man   cloud9:

Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Miss Demeanour on September 09, 2009, 11:15:34 AM
The problem with being in full time employment is not being able to get all the household chores done, everything either has to be packed in the weekend or a day's holiday taken. Example, the boiler is due it's annual service but I haven't been able to take a day off.

Count yourself lucky.

You could always take up a hobby. Cake making and model railways comes to mind.  ;)

That always used to be a major bug bear - having to take a day's leave to wait for service men ( or women )  or deliveries to fail to turn up.

Having worked 'flexibly' now for over 2 years it is a gosdend. One day a week working from home allows you to do all these little things.

Of course it does depend on you having a frickin internet connection that works  Banghead
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 09, 2009, 11:17:07 AM
And a willing and flexible Sven  eyes:

Anyhoo. Past noon so -Thunderball  eveilgrin:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Miss Demeanour on September 09, 2009, 11:18:29 AM
Would that reduce your daytime guilt then Nick - a flexible friend to play with  whistle:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 09, 2009, 11:18:55 AM
Sylvia the MILF  eyes:  cloud9:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Pastis on September 09, 2009, 12:20:06 PM
I imagine many here (aside from our sadly unemployed brethren - to whom my apologies) may also feel odd about bunking off. What do you do?

In a word, yes. There is ALWAYS something that's needs doing.  Shrugs:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Miss Demeanour on September 09, 2009, 12:25:12 PM
It's about priorities....if you decide to be good to yourself today then bunk off and enjoy....if you decide to be good to others then knuckle down and start working

Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 09, 2009, 12:26:18 PM
I imagine many here (aside from our sadly unemployed brethren - to whom my apologies) may also feel odd about bunking off. What do you do?

In a word, yes. There is ALWAYS something that's needs doing.  Shrugs:

Quite. But some things can wait  eveilgrin:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Pastis on September 09, 2009, 01:18:55 PM
PS  D'you think Wenchy will misread this thread as Daytime quilt ?  whistle:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 09, 2009, 01:38:48 PM
 point:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Pastis on September 10, 2009, 01:02:39 PM
I'm kind of having one of those days ~ daytime guilt ~ 'cept I'm playing email ping pong with a guy in Singapore who's trying to open some design work I sent on his Blackberry  happy001
He's even nipped home to see if he can open the files on his son's laptop  lol:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 10, 2009, 01:16:34 PM
Sunnio here. Looks like the local MILFs are having a girly lunch out. Where are my binoculars?  rubschin:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Pastis on September 10, 2009, 05:22:58 PM
 tunble:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: TG on September 11, 2009, 05:18:20 PM
Being at home a lot has it's advantages. For a kick off one is always in when the the BASTARD JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES BANG ON YOUR FVKCING DOOR!
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Snoopy on September 11, 2009, 05:22:08 PM
 eeek: And you answered it?
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: TG on September 11, 2009, 05:27:44 PM
eeek: And you answered it?

Yes of course I did. I mean it could have been the Mormons innit? They like a good laugh.
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Landlady on September 11, 2009, 05:29:16 PM
eeek: And you answered it?

Yes of course I did. I mean it could have been the Mormons innit? They like a good laugh.

But the 'M's don't like coffee or Pepsi  razz:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Pastis on September 11, 2009, 05:29:52 PM
Not having a door onto the street I don't get that. However, come Sunday all and sundry are out in force, suited and booted and carrying small black books  ::)

There's usually a white minibus nearby carrying the legend "The Church of Holy Flat Bread and Redeeming Pumpkin Pie" or somesuch. There's a church down the road where some of them gather for hours on a Sunday; walk past it and you could be hearing the James Brown set on the Blues Brothers!  eeek:
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Landlady on September 11, 2009, 05:31:12 PM
Not having a door onto the street I don't get that. However, come Sunday all and sundry are out in force, suited and booted and carrying small black books  ::)

There's usually a white minibus nearby carrying the legend "The Church of Holy Flat Bread and Redeeming Pumpkin Pie" or somesuch. There's a church down the road where some of them gather for hours on a Sunday; walk past it and you could be hearing the James Brown set on the Blues Brothers!  eeek:

But you do have to admit (go on admit it) that they can hold a tune ...
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: TG on September 11, 2009, 05:32:37 PM
eeek: And you answered it?

Yes of course I did. I mean it could have been the Mormons innit? They like a good laugh.

But the 'M's don't like coffee or Pepsi  razz:

What about White Lightening? I could get them pissed and have a sing song.
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Landlady on September 11, 2009, 05:34:01 PM
eeek: And you answered it?

Yes of course I did. I mean it could have been the Mormons innit? They like a good laugh.

But the 'M's don't like coffee or Pepsi  razz:

What about White Lightening? I could get them pissed and have a sing song.

'What's' that then????
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Snoopy on September 11, 2009, 05:35:54 PM
eeek: And you answered it?

Yes of course I did. I mean it could have been the Mormons innit? They like a good laugh.

But the 'M's don't like coffee or Pepsi  razz:

What about White Lightening? I could get them pissed and have a sing song.

'What's' that then????

Strong cider

Hellooooooooo LL ~ nice to see you.



PS Wki says:
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White Lightning is a brand of cheap white cider (or more accurately fermented corn syrup) brewed by Scottish Courage in the UK. Although originally available in a 3 litre bottle (advertised as 3 litres for the price of 2 litres), in 2004 Scottish Courage announced that bottles of White Lightning would be produced at a maximum of 2 litres in order to restore value to the "cider" drinks market and to pursue the perhaps difficult goal of promoting responsible drinking amongst consumers of such products
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Pastis on September 11, 2009, 05:36:17 PM
Not having a door onto the street I don't get that. However, come Sunday all and sundry are out in force, suited and booted and carrying small black books  ::)

There's usually a white minibus nearby carrying the legend "The Church of Holy Flat Bread and Redeeming Pumpkin Pie" or somesuch. There's a church down the road where some of them gather for hours on a Sunday; walk past it and you could be hearing the James Brown set on the Blues Brothers!  eeek:

But you do have to admit (go on admit it) that they can hold a tune ...

Oh Lordy, can they!  lol:

I swear I heard some Hendrix riffs in "Take me to the River" once  ;)
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: TG on September 11, 2009, 05:38:02 PM
eeek: And you answered it?

Yes of course I did. I mean it could have been the Mormons innit? They like a good laugh.

But the 'M's don't like coffee or Pepsi  razz:

What about White Lightening? I could get them pissed and have a sing song.

'What's' that then????

White Lightening I will have you know is a brand of full strength cider that tastes like battery acid and costs about 20p a gallon.

Beverage of choice for many.

But not me. Not yet anyway. Not while Carlsberg Special Brew tastes so lovely.  cloud9:

Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Landlady on September 11, 2009, 05:44:14 PM
Yummy - WL sounds like just
For NOW will stay with my lovely glass of Italian red wine - Cheers All !!!!

Off out now for supper...
Title: Re: Daytime guilt
Post by: Nick on September 11, 2009, 07:04:33 PM
Hello LL. Keeping a watchful eye eh? Very wise!  eyes: