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Title: Can you get delayed reaction to grief?
Post by: Nick on April 21, 2008, 11:30:59 AM

I was in the garden earlier and the plant we planted over Marmite the cat is flowering.

Got a bit weepy (big man and can therefore admit this)

 sad24:

Title: Re: Can you get delayed reaction to grief?
Post by: Bar Wench on April 21, 2008, 11:32:17 AM

Yes.

My Bro fell apart over a year after my Dad died. He'd been fine before that. I lost the plot six months after.

Title: Re: Can you get delayed reaction to grief?
Post by: Nick on April 21, 2008, 11:35:51 AM

At my Mum's funeral we played Kathleen Ferrier singing "Art thou Troubled". That was 12 years ago.I still can't hear it without crying.

You are right

Title: Re: Can you get delayed reaction to grief?
Post by: Uncle Mort on April 21, 2008, 11:38:06 AM

Quote from: Bar Wench on April 21, 2008, 11:32:17 AM

Yes.

I lost the plot six months after.

Should have planted a flower on the plot then you wouldn't have lost it  ;)

(sorry - couldn't resist)

Title: Re: Can you get delayed reaction to grief?
Post by: Nick on April 21, 2008, 11:39:11 AM

Tsk!

Title: Re: Can you get delayed reaction to grief?
Post by: Snoopy on April 21, 2008, 11:41:07 AM

Yes! Nessun Dorma does it for me 'cos we played it at my Mum's funeral.






And before anyone asks NO! She didn't like football  evil:

Title: Re: Can you get delayed reaction to grief?
Post by: Darwins Selection on April 21, 2008, 11:41:11 AM

Quote from: Uncle Mort on April 21, 2008, 11:38:06 AM

Quote from: Bar Wench on April 21, 2008, 11:32:17 AM

Yes.

I lost the plot six months after.

Should have planted a flower on the plot then you wouldn't have lost it  ;)

(sorry - couldn't resist)

I did.  angel1

Title: Re: Can you get delayed reaction to grief?
Post by: Nick on April 21, 2008, 01:27:35 PM

Quote from: Snoopy on April 21, 2008, 11:41:07 AM

Yes! Nessun Dorma does it for me 'cos we played it at my Mum's funeral.






And before anyone asks NO! She didn't like football  evil:

ALso KF singing Blow the Wind Southerly

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=m4WmEtXDTPo (http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=m4WmEtXDTPo)

Also

a real weepy, I can't listen.............

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=ypePP1ENcmw&feature=related (http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=ypePP1ENcmw&feature=related)