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Title: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 03, 2007, 10:42:55 AM
Every weekend the colour supplements seem to feature profiles of people with improbable names who all appear to live in artfully designed palaces, castles, mansions, idyllic country cottages etc. Never a speck of dust or anything out of place.

The net effect of this unwelcome exposure to these alternative "lifestyles" is to create angst. I am quite clear that if we had a gang of photographers from the Sunday Times turning up we would have redecorated, decluttered, chucked out all the old newspapers, bought fresh flowers, hidden The Boy under the patio, sprayed expensive fragrances everywhere, left some clever books artfully arranged on the coffee table and cleared the 17 layer deep notice board.

Most people don't live like that. (do they?)

Why the grump?

The MIL is coming to stay overnight and the spare room (aka my office) has been declared "a pit". Mrs Nick has been scrubbing, dusting, hoovering, mopping, wiping things with damp cloths for the last 3 hours. I have been instructed to "clean the bathroom." Why? The MIL has known her for, er, 53 years and in any case lives surrounded by mountains of tat and old newspapers herself. But no. The job has to be done. My socks are wet, I can see dust floating in the sunlight and the whole room stinks of Jif, Windolene, polish and god knows what else.

I blame the Sunday papers. evil:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Barman on September 03, 2007, 10:53:39 AM
Agree with you.

Who was that idiot that did the TV programme?

?And who lives in a house like this??   rubschin:

Nobody you tosser ? its all be cleaned up, spruced up and most of the books and ornaments weren?t there a week ago.  Banghead
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 03, 2007, 11:00:35 AM
A friend of ours lives like it. Their house is like a show home. I dropped in there last week and she and her husband were in the middle of a row because he had left the paper out on the sofa.  eeek:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: tel on September 03, 2007, 11:45:15 AM
Ever been to the Ideal Home exhibition?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Snoopy on September 03, 2007, 12:04:25 PM
We've got the builders back again today. The plumber has finished but the chimney repairs continue.
Soot everywhere  evil:
Tiler coming on Friday (double evil:)
Then all the rooms to be decorated, including two that had already been done this year ..... because of the fvcking soot fall caused by the chimney repairs (Treble  evil:)

Oh the joys of buying an older property 'cos it has "Character"   angry037
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Misunderstood on September 03, 2007, 01:31:41 PM
My son and daughter-in-law (and their three daughters) live like that.  Everything lasts until the next bin collection and it's gone.  Toys, gas bills, treasured photos, papers and tat, it's all gone!  eeek:

I kinda approve of the tidiness of it all but they don't know anything about anything because there is never anything to read there.  They are reluctant to let the children come over to our house because we (apparently) are too untidy and a bad example  whistle:

I try not to let it bother me.....  ;D   I don't like kids much anyway and I am quite enjoying being eccentric in my dotage.
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 03, 2007, 01:36:09 PM
My son and daughter-in-law (and their three daughters) live like that.  Everything lasts until the next bin collection and it's gone.  Toys, gas bills, treasured photos, papers and tat, it's all gone!  eeek:

I kinda approve of the tidiness of it all but they don't know anything about anything because there is never anything to read there.  They are reluctant to let the children come over to our house because we (apparently) are too untidy and a bad example  whistle:

I try not to let it bother me.....  ;D   I don't like kids much anyway and I am quite enjoying being eccentric in my dotage.

I simply couldn't live like that! There has to be a happy medium surely.
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Snoopy on September 03, 2007, 01:40:07 PM
My son and daughter-in-law (and their three daughters) live like that.  Everything lasts until the next bin collection and it's gone.  Toys, gas bills, treasured photos, papers and tat, it's all gone!  eeek:

I kinda approve of the tidiness of it all but they don't know anything about anything because there is never anything to read there.  They are reluctant to let the children come over to our house because we (apparently) are too untidy and a bad example  whistle:

I try not to let it bother me.....  ;D   I don't like kids much anyway and I am quite enjoying being eccentric in my dotage.



I simply couldn't live like that! There has to be a happy medium surely.


Doris Stokes was a Happy Medium.  ;)
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Misunderstood on September 03, 2007, 02:01:10 PM
My son and daughter-in-law (and their three daughters) live like that.  Everything lasts until the next bin collection and it's gone.  Toys, gas bills, treasured photos, papers and tat, it's all gone!  eeek:

I kinda approve of the tidiness of it all but they don't know anything about anything because there is never anything to read there.  They are reluctant to let the children come over to our house because we (apparently) are too untidy and a bad example  whistle:

I try not to let it bother me.....  ;D   I don't like kids much anyway and I am quite enjoying being eccentric in my dotage.

I simply couldn't live like that! There has to be a happy medium surely.

Exactly! I have always been of the opinion that once you allow any facet of your life to alter and dominate your lifestyle then you are a victim of an obsession.  In any set of circumstances obsessions are destructive. It usually makes one difficult to live with too.

Even I admit to one!  I used to be an administrator in a very dirty steelworks and had to constantly wash my hands to keep my papers readable,  It has stuck and forty-five years later I still wash my hands at least forty times a day.  I just can't help it.  It doesn't bother others too much but causes much hilarity when I am out of reach of a tap.

But I do have a collection of unread books to hand for whenever I feel like it.    redface:  The shame...
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Barman on September 03, 2007, 02:12:31 PM
My son and daughter-in-law (and their three daughters) live like that.  Everything lasts until the next bin collection and it's gone.  Toys, gas bills, treasured photos, papers and tat, it's all gone!  eeek:

I kinda approve of the tidiness of it all but they don't know anything about anything because there is never anything to read there.  They are reluctant to let the children come over to our house because we (apparently) are too untidy and a bad example  whistle:

I try not to let it bother me.....  ;D   I don't like kids much anyway and I am quite enjoying being eccentric in my dotage.

I simply couldn't live like that! There has to be a happy medium surely.

Exactly! I have always been of the opinion that once you allow any facet of your life to alter and dominate your lifestyle then you are a victim of an obsession.  In any set of circumstances obsessions are destructive. It usually makes one difficult to live with too.

Even I admit to one!  I used to be an administrator in a very dirty steelworks and had to constantly wash my hands to keep my papers readable,  It has stuck and forty-five years later I still wash my hands at least forty times a day.  I just can't help it.  It doesn't bother others too much but causes much hilarity when I am out of reach of a tap.

But I do have a collection of unread books to hand for whenever I feel like it.    redface:  The shame...
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Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Misunderstood on September 03, 2007, 02:37:26 PM
 confused:  But I don't know anything about American Immigration ...
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Barman on September 03, 2007, 02:43:33 PM
confused:  But I don't know anything about American Immigration ...
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Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Uncle Mort on September 04, 2007, 07:50:21 AM
'clean the bathroom' was always my ex's instruction to me whenever we were expecting visiters.

I admit my home is a bit of a tip ~ one man and two children, what else would you expect. When I have a clean and tidy up my daughter will ask who's coming to visit? (and she's right) 

Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 08:02:32 AM
'clean the bathroom' was always my ex's instruction to me whenever we were expecting visiters.

I admit my home is a bit of a tip ~ one man and two children, what else would you expect. When I have a clean and tidy up my daughter will ask who's coming to visit? (and she's right) 



Because you can clean the bathroom without a multitude of questions! Last week Mr Wench and I had a grand tidy and clean of the house. Every five sodding minutes, help me with this, where does this go, what does this do blah blah blah. At least with the bathroom he can't do any damage and he knows that every surface must be cleaned!
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Snoopy on September 04, 2007, 08:26:09 AM
'clean the bathroom' was always my ex's instruction to me whenever we were expecting visiters.

I admit my home is a bit of a tip ~ one man and two children, what else would you expect. When I have a clean and tidy up my daughter will ask who's coming to visit? (and she's right) 



Because you can clean the bathroom without a multitude of questions! Last week Mr Wench and I had a grand tidy and clean of the house. Every five sodding minutes, help me with this, where does this go, what does this do blah blah blah. At least with the bathroom he can't do any damage and he knows that every surface must be cleaned!

Yet another argument in favour of National Service. Two years in the Army at the age of 18 and he would now know how to clean and polish everything. evil:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 08:31:55 AM
He can clean and polish he just can't tidy, ie. put his and my crap away!  evil: Why is it I know where all his rubbish lives and can tidy it up but he doesn't know where mine lives. It's the same with putting away washing. When I do it I do mine and his. When he does it he claims not to know where any of mine lives.  ::) You know where the knicker drawer is, can you not at least put those away!?!?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: tel on September 04, 2007, 09:02:07 AM
He can clean and polish he just can't tidy, ie. put his and my crap away!  evil: Why is it I know where all his rubbish lives and can tidy it up but he doesn't know where mine lives. It's the same with putting away washing. When I do it I do mine and his. When he does it he claims not to know where any of mine lives.  ::) You know where the knicker drawer is, can you not at least put those away!?!?
His knickers or yours?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Grumpmeister on September 04, 2007, 09:23:56 AM
interchangable they may be Tel  eeek:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 09:31:14 AM
He can clean and polish he just can't tidy, ie. put his and my crap away!  evil: Why is it I know where all his rubbish lives and can tidy it up but he doesn't know where mine lives. It's the same with putting away washing. When I do it I do mine and his. When he does it he claims not to know where any of mine lives.  ::) You know where the knicker drawer is, can you not at least put those away!?!?

Both. We have seperate knicker drawers and seperate knickers!
His knickers or yours?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Snoopy on September 04, 2007, 09:41:57 AM
He can clean and polish he just can't tidy, ie. put his and my crap away!  evil: Why is it I know where all his rubbish lives and can tidy it up but he doesn't know where mine lives. It's the same with putting away washing. When I do it I do mine and his. When he does it he claims not to know where any of mine lives.  ::) You know where the knicker drawer is, can you not at least put those away!?!?

Oh the answer to that is simple ~ if he can't put them away ..... don't let him wear them
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 09:47:01 AM
Also why do blokes insist on hanging on to underwear that has sooo many holes in it it no longer does the job it was intended to do?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Marley's Ghost (Imbiber of Spirits) on September 04, 2007, 09:50:49 AM
Also why do blokes insist on hanging on to underwear that has sooo many holes in it it no longer does the job it was intended to do?

Three reasons:

1. To allow a cooling draught to the nether regions when required (and to provide extra ball room should it be required)

2. To allow easy access to the equipment should this be needed

3. To allow the farts to escape easily

OK?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 09:52:54 AM
Don't they ahem chafe?  redface:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: tel on September 04, 2007, 09:54:40 AM
Don't they ahem chafe?  redface:
Nasty nylon ones do, but then they also create large amounts of static - makes things stand on end redface:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 10:33:02 AM
Most of mine are pink, following that accident with the red T shirt. Am I bovvered?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Misunderstood on September 04, 2007, 10:41:17 AM
Also why do blokes insist on hanging on to underwear that has sooo many holes in it it no longer does the job it was intended to do?

Only one reason. 

They are comfortable. We get attached to comfortable things.

Any replacement may not be as comfortable and by the time we find that out, the 'comfortable' one have 'disappeared'.   evil:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 10:52:02 AM
Also why do blokes insist on hanging on to underwear that has sooo many holes in it it no longer does the job it was intended to do?

Only one reason. 

They are comfortable. We get attached to comfortable things.

Any replacement may not be as comfortable and by the time we find that out, the 'comfortable' one have 'disappeared'.   evil:

Mr Wench's disapear slowly. One pair every couple of weeks.  redface:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 10:54:52 AM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Marley's Ghost (Imbiber of Spirits) on September 04, 2007, 11:04:15 AM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:

You tell me?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: grumpyoldsoldier on September 04, 2007, 11:10:22 AM
Outstanding post Nick drumroll:
I have been there, done it, seen the film, read the bok and got the bloody T shirt lol:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Misunderstood on September 04, 2007, 11:22:28 AM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:

Please Miss, Wenchy started it!
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Snoopy on September 04, 2007, 11:23:32 AM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:

Please Miss, Wenchy started it!

That's right Miss ~ That Wenchy .... she's obsessive about knickers. point:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 11:50:20 AM
Dream homes then.

















Or dream knickers perhaps (where is that NO NO NO emoticon when you need it?)
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Barman on September 04, 2007, 11:54:47 AM
Ever been to the Ideal Home exhibition?
I went once - I thought it was shite.
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 11:55:19 AM
We are hovering dangerously close to undergarments again!
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Snoopy on September 04, 2007, 11:58:33 AM
We are hovering dangerously close to undergarments again!

So whose Knickers would you like to make your dream home in?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Barman on September 04, 2007, 11:59:49 AM
We are hovering dangerously close to undergarments again!

So whose Knickers would you like to make your dream home in?
That bird on the Special K box...  cloud9:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Grumpmeister on September 04, 2007, 12:01:38 PM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:

Please Miss, Wenchy started it!

That's right Miss ~ That Wenchy .... she's obsessive about knickers. point:

All of a sudden Bridget Wench comes to mind  whistle:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 12:06:19 PM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:

Please Miss, Wenchy started it!

That's right Miss ~ That Wenchy .... she's obsessive about knickers. point:

All of a sudden Bridget Wench comes to mind  whistle:

Once upon a time that was my nickname, and Mr Wench was known as Emotional Fuck-wit.  redface:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Marley's Ghost (Imbiber of Spirits) on September 04, 2007, 12:10:43 PM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:

Please Miss, Wenchy started it!

That's right Miss ~ That Wenchy .... she's obsessive about knickers. point:

All of a sudden Bridget Wench comes to mind  whistle:

Once upon a time that was my nickname, and Mr Wench was known as Emotional Fuck-wit.  redface:

 eeek:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 12:12:20 PM
But no longer, evidently. Wonder what his nickname is now.
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Snoopy on September 04, 2007, 12:12:58 PM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:

Please Miss, Wenchy started it!

That's right Miss ~ That Wenchy .... she's obsessive about knickers. point:

All of a sudden Bridget Wench comes to mind  whistle:

Once upon a time that was my nickname, and Mr Wench was known as Emotional Fuck-wit.  redface:

By whom?
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 12:48:54 PM
Why is this thread now about disappearing underpants? noooo:

Please Miss, Wenchy started it!

That's right Miss ~ That Wenchy .... she's obsessive about knickers. point:

All of a sudden Bridget Wench comes to mind  whistle:

Once upon a time that was my nickname, and Mr Wench was known as Emotional Fuck-wit.  redface:

By whom?

Myself and my immediate circle of friends. When he stopped being EF-W and became Mr Wench it transpired that a handful of them didn't actually know his real name.  redface:

These days he is simply known as Oi! You!, Mr Wench, The Idiot or The Welsh Hobbit.
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 12:49:42 PM
 noooo: noooo:

Poor chap. I feel for him.
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Snoopy on September 04, 2007, 12:52:44 PM
noooo: noooo:

Poor chap. I feel for him.

 eeek:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Grumpmeister on September 04, 2007, 12:52:55 PM

These days he is simply known as Oi! You!, Mr Wench, The Idiot or The Welsh Hobbit.

Does he call you his precious by any chance?  eeek:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 12:54:29 PM
Doubtful. Very doubtful.
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 12:58:31 PM
Doubtful. Very doubtful.

Smote!
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Uncle Mort on September 04, 2007, 01:02:17 PM
noooo: noooo:

Poor chap. I feel for him.

 eeek:

So do I:


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Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 01:02:50 PM
 point: point: point: point: point: point: point: point: scared2:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 01:03:29 PM
noooo: noooo:

Poor chap. I feel for him.

 eeek:

So do I:


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I'm quite an amicable young lady actually.  sad24:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: tel on September 04, 2007, 01:31:46 PM

These days he is simply known as Oi! You!, Mr Wench, The Idiot or The Welsh Hobbit.


Must be the hairy feet. Saves on shoes though.
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Misunderstood on September 04, 2007, 01:36:45 PM
I quite like Hobbits.....  tunble:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 01:37:40 PM
Well, you are in the right part of the country then

 drumroll:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Bar Wench on September 04, 2007, 01:50:24 PM
Well, you are in the right part of the country then

 drumroll:

 happy001
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Nick on September 04, 2007, 02:05:32 PM
Poor Mr Wench noooo:
Title: Re: "Dream Homes"
Post by: Misunderstood on September 04, 2007, 02:18:00 PM
Poor me!    sad24: