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Come Inside... => The Snug => Topic started by: Miss Demeanour on January 30, 2013, 09:51:56 AM
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Right time to get stuff off my chest !!!!
New man is totally lovely and ‘we’ are really good together.
The fly in the ointment is his ex, they were not married though. She left him about 5 years to go off with his best mate. She now lives with said ex best mate.
They have a joint mortgage but she has not paid anything for the last 5 years. He has remained at the house with their 2 sons (20 & 15). She turns up at the house anytime she wants which is often quite a few days a week (under the guise of seeing the boys).
New man informed her sometime ago that he was in a new relationship. Since then all hell has broken loose. cussing:
She has asked to get back together (whilst still going on holiday with her other blokey of course ) . When he has refused she has gone totally ballistic. She has tried to turn their sons against him but both of the boys fully support him having this relationship.
Yesterday she has declared she is moving back in and will be making his life hell and obviously the lives of her children who do not want her to move back in .
The wumman is feckin unbelievable ....I am hoping that she is just having a massive tantrum cos I can’t possibly see her leaving her current bloke to go and stay where she is not wanted , potentially at the risk of losing current bloke and the ex bloke not wanting anything to do with you - but I wouldn’t put it past her. Banghead
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Have you actually met this 'lady' yourself yet?
Nowt werse than 'baggage' accompanied by skellingtons rattlin' in't cupboard.
If this geezer is as good as you reckon, then he needs to get his finger out and tell the witch to sod off and leave alone, otherwise court injunction will have to beckon I reckon. eveilgrin:
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I have met her before at a wedding a few years ago . So she knows who I am .
I have not come face to face with her 'recently' because quite honestly I'm not sure I could hold my tongue or my fists evil:
It looks like some form of legal action is going to have to be taken but that is not quick remedy ....meanwhile she causes carnage cussing:
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Oh dear!
My ex-wife pulled a similar trick by moving out to live with her new man. For 6 months she came nowhere near the house or the kids who were 15 and 18 but as soon as she got wind that I had started a relationship with Woodstock she stormed back into the house declaring "She can have you but she is not getting my house or my children" so I moved out on the day she moved back in.
Strangely, within 9 months she had ditched her new bloke and sent the kids to live with Woodstock and me. She and Woodstock actually get on very well now but she is still spiteful towards me. Oh and a couple of years after the divorce she married someone else. Not the bloke she'd run off with.
All very odd and nasty at the time.
It really is something that your fella has to resolve for himself. You can help by supporting him but keep in the background whilst he sorts it.
That was how we got through it all. Woodstock was supportive and always there but I had to sort the problem to be able to offer her what we both wanted, which was to be together..... 26 years on we still are, which pleases me and apparently Woodstock too.
I do hope it works out for you in the way you would want but it will be a struggle as your man will feel a great deal of guilt no matter whose fault it is.
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What he sez ^^. he may be a grumpy owld git sometimes, but he does talk sense. lol:
All makes me fell sssso lucky now following my divorce in the late 70's.
Mrs G #1 NEVER gave me any grief apart from access to G jnr/snr for a few months, and she really didn't seem to give a flying herd of turds about me having different wimmins all the time.
She was a hussy and a bag at the time though mind. evil:
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Right time to get stuff off my chest !!!!
New man is totally lovely and ‘we’ are really good together.
The fly in the ointment is his ex, they were not married though. She left him about 5 years to go off with his best mate. She now lives with said ex best mate.
They have a joint mortgage but she has not paid anything for the last 5 years. He has remained at the house with their 2 sons (20 & 15). She turns up at the house anytime she wants which is often quite a few days a week (under the guise of seeing the boys).
New man informed her sometime ago that he was in a new relationship. Since then all hell has broken loose. cussing:
She has asked to get back together (whilst still going on holiday with her other blokey of course ) . When he has refused she has gone totally ballistic. She has tried to turn their sons against him but both of the boys fully support him having this relationship.
Yesterday she has declared she is moving back in and will be making his life hell and obviously the lives of her children who do not want her to move back in .
The wumman is feckin unbelievable ....I am hoping that she is just having a massive tantrum cos I can’t possibly see her leaving her current bloke to go and stay where she is not wanted , potentially at the risk of losing current bloke and the ex bloke not wanting anything to do with you - but I wouldn’t put it past her. Banghead
Move in...before she does...
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Did he have any other relationships since she moved out? If not she prolly had him around her little finger and thought she could play him to her advantage. cussing:
She might feel threatened in her cosy situation with you tresspassing on her comfy little number.
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I mis-read the title......thought the Brats dad was cross dressing.... redface:
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I mis-read the title......thought the Brats dad was cross dressing.... redface:
lol: lol: lol:
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Did he have any other relationships since she moved out? If not she prolly had him around her little finger and thought she could play him to her advantage. cussing:
She might feel threatened in her cosy situation with you tresspassing on her comfy little number.
He had another brief relationship a few years ago but it wasn't serious. She convinced him that if he ended it they would get back together and be 'a family' again.
So he ended it thinking his relationship might be recoverable with her.
She then refused to discuss it further and nothing has changed since some 4 years later.
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Keeping him hanging on me thinks. rubschin:
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I mis-read the title......thought the Brats dad was cross dressing.... redface:
Oh Apey. You do make me chortle sometimes. lol:
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Did he have any other relationships since she moved out? If not she prolly had him around her little finger and thought she could play him to her advantage. cussing:
She might feel threatened in her cosy situation with you tresspassing on her comfy little number.
He had another brief relationship a few years ago but it wasn't serious. She convinced him that if he ended it they would get back together and be 'a family' again.
So he ended it thinking his relationship might be recoverable with her.
She then refused to discuss it further and nothing has changed since some 4 years later.
D'ya (or him) want me to come down there an' 'ave a well ard and proper 'werd' with 'er like? eveilgrin:
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Yes please .....you could use your very effective charm technique :thumbsup:
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Yes please .....you could use your very effective charm technique :thumbsup:
Oh yes indeedeedodo. Sinister:
I have spoken to you, so you know JUST how charming and well spoken I am ey? eveilgrin: lol:
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Right time to get stuff off my chest !!!!
New man is totally lovely and ‘we’ are really good together.
The fly in the ointment is his ex, they were not married though. She left him about 5 years to go off with his best mate. She now lives with said ex best mate.
They have a joint mortgage but she has not paid anything for the last 5 years. He has remained at the house with their 2 sons (20 & 15). She turns up at the house anytime she wants which is often quite a few days a week (under the guise of seeing the boys).
New man informed her sometime ago that he was in a new relationship. Since then all hell has broken loose. cussing:
She has asked to get back together (whilst still going on holiday with her other blokey of course ) . When he has refused she has gone totally ballistic. She has tried to turn their sons against him but both of the boys fully support him having this relationship.
Yesterday she has declared she is moving back in and will be making his life hell and obviously the lives of her children who do not want her to move back in .
The wumman is feckin unbelievable ....I am hoping that she is just having a massive tantrum cos I can’t possibly see her leaving her current bloke to go and stay where she is not wanted , potentially at the risk of losing current bloke and the ex bloke not wanting anything to do with you - but I wouldn’t put it past her. Banghead
There's your clue .... right there.
She will want "Buying out" and I'll wager she already has a figure in mind ..... that'll be at least half the current value of the property ~ Go to court and she'll prolly get it. Morally that is wrong in so many ways but legally she'll have a case and if your man loses in court they'll stuff him with her costs too.
Short answer is for him to move out and let her have the whole thing as I did BUT first he has to get out of the Joint Mortgage situation or she still won't pay and the Bank/Bld Soc will come after him for it as Joint Mortgagees are "Jointly and separately liable for the whole debt" not, as one would think, only their half of it.
He needs good legal advice and quickly. Even if you two don't stay together forever she'll have him over this no matter what. That is her insurance for the future. It's not him she wants it's the munny.
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Meet her for a drink at Victoria Station :thumbsup:
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Right time to get stuff off my chest !!!!
New man is totally lovely and ‘we’ are really good together.
The fly in the ointment is his ex, they were not married though. She left him about 5 years to go off with his best mate. She now lives with said ex best mate.
They have a joint mortgage but she has not paid anything for the last 5 years. He has remained at the house with their 2 sons (20 & 15). She turns up at the house anytime she wants which is often quite a few days a week (under the guise of seeing the boys).
New man informed her sometime ago that he was in a new relationship. Since then all hell has broken loose. cussing:
She has asked to get back together (whilst still going on holiday with her other blokey of course ) . When he has refused she has gone totally ballistic. She has tried to turn their sons against him but both of the boys fully support him having this relationship.
Yesterday she has declared she is moving back in and will be making his life hell and obviously the lives of her children who do not want her to move back in .
The wumman is feckin unbelievable ....I am hoping that she is just having a massive tantrum cos I can’t possibly see her leaving her current bloke to go and stay where she is not wanted , potentially at the risk of losing current bloke and the ex bloke not wanting anything to do with you - but I wouldn’t put it past her. Banghead
There's your clue .... right there.
She will want "Buying out" and I'll wager she already has a figure in mind ..... that'll be at least half the current value of the property ~ Go to court and she'll prolly get it. Morally that is wrong in so many ways but legally she'll have a case and if your man loses in court they'll stuff him with her costs too.
Short answer is for him to move out and let her have the whole thing as I did BUT first he has to get out of the Joint Mortgage situation or she still won't pay and the Bank/Bld Soc will come after him for it as Joint Mortgagees are "Jointly and separately liable for the whole debt" not, as one would think, only their half of it.
He needs good legal advice and quickly. Even if you two don't stay together forever she'll have him over this no matter what. That is her insurance for the future. It's not him she wants it's the munny.
"Joint and several liability" whistle:
But the hound is right, unfortunately. When you weren't around it probably suited her for him to have the house and the children. Now that the situation could change and even the younger boy is nearly adult, she will do all in her power to make things as uncomfortable as possible. "Hell hath no fury (or furry)..." and all that.
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OH yes Snoops I am sure that is the case too. She doesn't want to lose her safety net as she sees it.
She has also enquired about what entitlement she would have to his pension rights when he retires as she doesn't have any provision in place. They are not married so that seems fairly clean cut to me noooo:
I have told him he needs to go and seek legal advice but you're right, it will not be simple or fair.
I think for far too long he has been far too compliant and it will be difficult to change these patterns and her control. He says he has to though so we shall see.
Seriously fecked up situation though noooo:
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Meet her for a drink at Victoria Station :thumbsup:
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It wasn't my fault noooo:
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Meet her for a drink at Victoria Station :thumbsup:
lol:
It wasn't my fault noooo:
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OH yes Snoops I am sure that is the case too. She doesn't want to lose her safety net as she sees it.
She has also enquired about what entitlement she would have to his pension rights when he retires as she doesn't have any provision in place. They are not married so that seems fairly clean cut to me noooo:
I have told him he needs to go and seek legal advice but you're right, it will not be simple or fair.
I think for far too long he has been far too compliant and it will be difficult to change these patterns and her control. He says he has to though so we shall see.
Seriously fecked up situation though noooo:
This is going to be no consolation but remember that we were married.
Her Solicitors demanded, under threat of a court order, access to details of my insurances and pension provisions.
On the grounds that although she had not paid a penny piece into them she had "contributed" by staying at home, being housewife, cook etc, I ended up having to cash in the life policies and give her half the resultant cash PLUS, as the pension could not be cashed in (Company Pension Scheme ..... in the event of my death she would get 1/3 of the pension for the rest of her days) I had to pay her half the value of contributions (My contributions and those made by the company) made to date of divorce. This was all presented to the Judge who handed down a Court Order to that effect, commenting that it seemed a fair and amicable settlement .... the implication being that had I opposed it he would have awarded her more but he preferred it if couples could make their own agreements which he would then "rubber stamp".
I cannot stress enough the value of getting good legal advice as soon as possible.
There is, of course, one other option but I know you won't want to take it. I'll say it anyway: Walk away now and tell him to sort his life then give you a call
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OH yes Snoops I am sure that is the case too. She doesn't want to lose her safety net as she sees it.
She has also enquired about what entitlement she would have to his pension rights when he retires as she doesn't have any provision in place. They are not married so that seems fairly clean cut to me noooo:
I have told him he needs to go and seek legal advice but you're right, it will not be simple or fair.
I think for far too long he has been far too compliant and it will be difficult to change these patterns and her control. He says he has to though so we shall see.
Seriously fecked up situation though noooo:
This is going to be no consolation but remember that we were married.
Her Solicitors demanded, under threat of a court order, access to details of my insurances and pension provisions.
On the grounds that although she had not paid a penny piece into them she had "contributed" by staying at home, being housewife, cook etc, I ended up having to cash in the life policies and give her half the resultant cash PLUS, as the pension could not be cashed in (Company Pension Scheme ..... in the event of my death she would get 1/3 of the pension for the rest of her days) I had to pay her half the value of contributions (My contributions and those made by the company) made to date of divorce. This was all presented to the Judge who handed down a Court Order to that effect, commenting that it seemed a fair and amicable settlement .... the implication being that had I opposed it he would have awarded her more but he preferred it if couples could make their own agreements which he would then "rubber stamp".
I cannot stress enough the value of getting good legal advice as soon as possible.
There is, of course, one other option but I know you won't want to take it. I'll say it anyway: Walk away now and tell him to sort his life then give you a call
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Posty left me a card yesterday informing me that there was something for me at the Sorting Office. Insufficient postage. £2 to pay.
When I collected it I found it to be a birthday card from Mrs Nick evil:
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So sorry to hear all that Miss D.... happy100
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Oh dear, noooo: happy100
I was going to make a comment but our Snoopy has hit that nail on the head at the top of page 2.
Difficult doesn't begin to describe it; I've been in an equally difficult but different situation. After much thought, anguish, argument, threats, tantrums ... I took the decision to walk away. confused:
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Like Growler and BM, like rubschin:
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As the least qualified to comment on successful relationships, I have stood back from this thread to let the better placed pundits have their say.
I am broadly in agreement with the causes, effects and advice given so far.
The problem I see will be the pressure on your new man and how well he handles it. One way or another it will be expensive for him and he will feel he has lost/given up a great deal (unless he 'goes back' of course).
If he feels he has given up all his worldly goods 'for you', there will always be an undercurrent of resentment which will cause friction as you move out of the first flush of romance.
It is always better to have sorted out all this baggage 'for him' rather than as a consequence of a new relationship.
Snoopy's 'walk away, sort it then come back' suggestion is the hardest but probably the best if you are looking for long-term harmony.
You could become a nun or go walkabout of course.
Best of luck, these things are never easy. happy100
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[serious] What a bloody brilliant place this is....
It is amazing that such a diverse bunch of people have come together and feel so close to each other...
Very pleased to have you all here... [/serious]
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[serious] What a bloody brilliant place this is....
It is amazing that such a diverse bunch of people have come together and feel so close to each other...
Very pleased to have you all here... [/serious]
It's a pleasure to be here - and I hope I speak for all of us when I thank you for keeping the pub "open" despite the hassles you get.
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[serious] What a bloody brilliant place this is....
It is amazing that such a diverse bunch of people have come together and feel so close to each other...
Very pleased to have you all here... [/serious]
It's a pleasure to be here - and I hope I speak for all of us when I thank you for keeping the pub "open" despite the hassles you get.
Days like this make it all worthwhile tiny.... Thumbs:
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[serious] What a bloody brilliant place this is....
It is amazing that such a diverse bunch of people have come together and feel so close to each other...
Very pleased to have you all here... [/serious]
It's a pleasure to be here - and I hope I speak for all of us when I thank you for keeping the pub "open" despite the hassles you get.
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We are all here for you missD.
It's easy to tell you to walk away until the complications are sorted, but what relationship is a piece of piss?
The financial and legal complications are not easily solved admittedly, but the emotional dramas she is creating by poisoning the kids against him and "claiming" she wants to to get back together etc can be improved by him growing a pair and standing up to her.
If you are happy with him, just be as supportive as you can. Nobody comes without baggage, and if you walk away too soon the next fella you meet might have a secret fart fetish, a collection of stuffed rodents in his bedroom and a really ickle willy. noooo:
The real question is without all the drama, does he make you happy?
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We are all here for you missD.
It's easy to tell you to walk away until the complications are sorted, but what relationship is a piece of piss?
The financial and legal complications are not easily solved admittedly, but the emotional dramas she is creating by poisoning the kids against him and "claiming" she wants to to get back together etc can be improved by him growing a pair and standing up to her.
If you are happy with him, just be as supportive as you can. Nobody comes without baggage, and if you walk away too soon the next fella you meet might have a secret fart fetish, a collection of stuffed rodents in his bedroom and a really ickle willy like Apey. noooo:
The real question is without all the drama, does he make you happy?
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We are all here for you missD.
It's easy to tell you to walk away until the complications are sorted, but what relationship is a piece of piss?
The financial and legal complications are not easily solved admittedly, but the emotional dramas she is creating by poisoning the kids against him and "claiming" she wants to to get back together etc can be improved by him growing a pair and standing up to her.
If you are happy with him, just be as supportive as you can. Nobody comes without baggage, and if you walk away too soon the next fella you meet might have a secret fart fetish, a collection of stuffed rodents in his bedroom and a really ickle willy like Apey. noooo:
The real question is without all the drama, does he make you happy?
whistle:
Excuse me but this is a serious thread ...... noooo:
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We are all here for you missD.
It's easy to tell you to walk away until the complications are sorted, but what relationship is a piece of piss?
The financial and legal complications are not easily solved admittedly, but the emotional dramas she is creating by poisoning the kids against him and "claiming" she wants to to get back together etc can be improved by him growing a pair and standing up to her.
If you are happy with him, just be as supportive as you can. Nobody comes without baggage, and if you walk away too soon the next fella you meet might have a secret fart fetish, a collection of stuffed rodents in his bedroom and a really ickle willy like Apey. noooo:
The real question is without all the drama, does he make you happy?
whistle:
Excuse me but this is a serious thread ...... noooo:
It isn't in The Commons.... whistle:
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Thanks Miss T
In answer to your question – yes he does make me really happy.
He really is the loveliest person – however he accepts he has allowed this situation to go on for far too long and as a consequence of this the situation now is fairly intolerable. He does indeed have to now stand up and be counted in terms of taking action, not allowing her to control his life . The boys are hardly kids and she has little influence or power over them. What she does believe is that she has the ability to make him feel like shit and wear him down to get what she wants. I find her absolute audacity totally gobsmackingly outrageous. Ask him to get back together, then turn abusive then go back home to your bloke and pretend everything is alright !!!
I have compared it to any change management process where you have to go through the stages of shock, anger, denial and depression etc until you finally get to acceptance. How long this will take heaven only knows. Is this something I can accept - only if I see consistency and positive action being taken .
The financial side of things can be sorted over time but the emotional damage and unacceptable behaviours cannot.
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We are all here for you missD.
It's easy to tell you to walk away until the complications are sorted, but what relationship is a piece of piss?
The financial and legal complications are not easily solved admittedly, but the emotional dramas she is creating by poisoning the kids against him and "claiming" she wants to to get back together etc can be improved by him growing a pair and standing up to her.
If you are happy with him, just be as supportive as you can. Nobody comes without baggage, and if you walk away too soon the next fella you meet might have a secret fart fetish, a collection of stuffed rodents in his bedroom and a really ickle willy like Apey. noooo:
The real question is without all the drama, does he make you happy?
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Excuse me but this is a serious thread ...... noooo:
It isn't in The Commons.... whistle:
Well you wouldn't find me making jokes....... whistle:
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To find someone who makes you happy is the hardest part. The rest of the shite is what we call "life". He realises he was too soft (no pun intended) and hopefully will make postive changes to recify that for the future of the two of you.
If that doesn't work I can come and bitch slap the monstrous whorebag :thumbsup: I lift tonnes of sound equipment daily so I can pack a punch. ;D
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a warning to you all. :thumbsup:
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We are all here for you missD.
It's easy to tell you to walk away until the complications are sorted, but what relationship is a piece of piss?
The financial and legal complications are not easily solved admittedly, but the emotional dramas she is creating by poisoning the kids against him and "claiming" she wants to to get back together etc can be improved by him growing a pair and standing up to her.
If you are happy with him, just be as supportive as you can. Nobody comes without baggage, and if you walk away too soon the next fella you meet might have a secret fart fetish, a collection of stuffed rodents in his bedroom and a really ickle willy like Apey. noooo:
The real question is without all the drama, does he make you happy?
whistle:
Excuse me but this is a serious thread ...... noooo:
It isn't in The Commons.... whistle:
Well you wouldn't find me making jokes....... whistle:
So I've heard... noooo:
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[serious] What a bloody brilliant place this is....
It is amazing that such a diverse bunch of people have come together and feel so close to each other...
Very pleased to have you all here... [/serious]
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Good, that's all sorted. :thumbsup:
Now all we need is a heart for Nick, courage for Growler and a brain for BM whistle:
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Not forgetting an everlasting lamp post for Snoopy.
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Thanks Miss T
In answer to your question – yes he does make me really happy.
He really is the loveliest person – however he accepts he has allowed this situation to go on for far too long and as a consequence of this the situation now is fairly intolerable. He does indeed have to now stand up and be counted in terms of taking action, not allowing her to control his life . The boys are hardly kids and she has little influence or power over them. What she does believe is that she has the ability to make him feel like shit and wear him down to get what she wants. I find her absolute audacity totally gobsmackingly outrageous. Ask him to get back together, then turn abusive then go back home to your bloke and pretend everything is alright !!!
I have compared it to any change management process where you have to go through the stages of shock, anger, denial and depression etc until you finally get to acceptance. How long this will take heaven only knows. Is this something I can accept - only if I see consistency and positive action being taken .
The financial side of things can be sorted over time but the emotional damage and unacceptable behaviours cannot.
Keep you pecker up Miss D......If he is strong enough and it was meant to happen it will all work out in the end.
Ex Mrs B has not allowed me to see my two girls on the last four Christmas Days cussing: sad32: sad32: They are twelve and five years old so I have missed all the magic of the occasion. cussing: I never said a thing to the kids.......but now the eldest is asking questions. They will see through in the end and the truth will be outed.
Tell him to stay strong and it will be sorted. Thumbs:
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Baldy also knows a man who knows a man who can "sort" the problem. ;)
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Baldy also knows a man who knows a man who can "sort" the problem. ;)
Apey???? rubschin:
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Baldy also knows a man who knows a man who can "sort" the problem. ;)
£750 can secure the same services over here whistle:
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Baldy also knows a man who knows a man who can "sort" the problem. ;)
£750 can secure the same services over here whistle:
Tart. ::)
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Baldy also knows a man who knows a man who can "sort" the problem. ;)
£750 can secure the same services over here whistle:
Tart. ::)
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[serious] What a bloody brilliant place this is....
It is amazing that such a diverse bunch of people have come together and feel so close to each other...
Very pleased to have you all here... [/serious]
Including ME even? eeek:
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[serious] What a bloody brilliant place this is....
It is amazing that such a diverse bunch of people have come together and feel so close to each other...
Very pleased to have you all here... [/serious]
Including ME even? eeek:
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Good, that's all sorted. :thumbsup:
Now all we need is a heart for Nick, courage for Growler and a brain for BM whistle:
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Not forgetting an everlasting lamp post for Snoopy.
Already gorra tin of that tbh, so can I 'swap and ave a fresh pineapple instead please, or a seal even, tar?
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What do you want a seal for/ Have you got a surfeit of fish?
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Bloody hell, what a shame this place wasn't here when I went through similar many moons ago. Best of luck with everything Miss D happy100 What did that Shakespeare fella say, "the course of true love never did run smooth" happy100 happy100
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It will all werk out. I have bought an new hat cloud9:
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It will all werk out. I have bought an new hat cloud9:
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It will all werk out. I have bought an new hat cloud9:
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whistle:
lol: lol: lol: lol:
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Baldy also knows a man who knows a man who can "sort" the problem. ;)
£750 can secure the same services over here whistle:
Wake up with a Tesco burger on the pillow?
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Baldy also knows a man who knows a man who can "sort" the problem. ;)
£750 can secure the same services over here whistle:
Wake up with a Tesco burger on the pillow?
happy001
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Good, that's all sorted. :thumbsup:
Now all we need is a heart for Nick, courage for Growler and a brain for BM whistle:
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Not forgetting an everlasting lamp post for Snoopy.
are you sayinig that Nick, Growler, BM and Snoopy are all friends of Dorothy?
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Good, that's all sorted. :thumbsup:
Now all we need is a heart for Nick, courage for Growler and a brain for BM whistle:
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Not forgetting an everlasting lamp post for Snoopy.
are you sayinig that Nick, Growler, BM and Snoopy are all friends of Dorothy?
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lol: lol: lol:
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Hi Miss D I am not going to sat too much on here other than to add my support and best wishes for your happiness.
Might I suggest that both he and you research this...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder)
He for ammunition you for information. I think that you will find much that rings a chord.
If you want to mess with her mind suggest that she looks into it too, but not until you are genned up on it and can very calmly answer back. eveilgrin: eveilgrin:
I wish you all the best at the very least and together some real mind time fun at best. eveilgrin:
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Good, that's all sorted. :thumbsup:
Now all we need is a heart for Nick, courage for Growler and a brain for BM whistle:
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Not forgetting an everlasting lamp post for Snoopy.
are you sayinig that Nick, Growler, BM and Snoopy are all friends of Dorothy?
whistle: whistle: whistle:
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I always had my suspicions about BM actually.
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Good luck Miss D, we will all stand shoulder to shoulder with you along the way.
£750 you say..... rubschin:
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Good luck Miss D, we will all stand shoulder to shoulder with you along the way.
£750 you say..... rubschin:
So his brother says........... whistle:
redface:
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The fly in the ointment is his ex, they were not married though. She left him about 5 years to go off with his best mate. She now lives with said ex best mate.
New man informed her sometime ago that he was in a new relationship. Since then all hell has broken loose. cussing:
She has asked to get back together (whilst still going on holiday with her other blokey of course ) . When he has refused she has gone totally ballistic. She has tried to turn their sons against him but both of the boys fully support him having this relationship.
Yesterday she has declared she is moving back in and will be making his life hell and obviously the lives of her children who do not want her to move back in .
Wonder if her 'new' bloke knows about her saying she wants to get back together rubschin: whistle:
You could almost feel sorry for him almost, if he hadn't stitched up his best friend that is.
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Wonder if her 'new' bloke knows about her saying she wants to get back together rubschin: whistle:
Perhaps somebody should ask him? rubschin: evil:
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She has been horrendous this week noooo:
When we were out on Thursday night work do 28 missed calls he got noooo:
We had a bit of a 'discussion' yesterday ....we shall see confused:
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You told him to 'sort it out or else' I trust.
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She has been horrendous this week noooo:
When we were out on Thursday night work do 28 missed calls he got noooo:
We had a bit of a 'discussion' yesterday ....we shall see confused:
happy100
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scared2:
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He has got to really put his foot down hun, as I'm sure you told him. She sounds slightly terrifying though. Neither of you have a bunny do you? or any other boilable fluffy pets?
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Would she like a 'Slurry Surprise'?
Half price to VP members whistle:
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He has got to really put his foot down hun, as I'm sure you told him. She sounds slightly terrifying though. Neither of you have a bunny do you? or any other boilable fluffy pets?
lol: lol: lol:
I'd thought of that.... redface:
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Get your mental sex slave friend to visit her partner ......... :thumbsup:
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lol:
Apparently loop de loop ex has finally spoken to her current partner ( ex best mate ) to explain why she has been so upset lately. But failed to inform him that she had threatened to move back etc that she has been begging daily to get back together etc. He was a little confused as to why she would be so bothered Banghead
Anyway hoooooooge bust up at the house yesterday which ended up with the eldest son slapping her round the face as she went off on one and was being a nasty bitch.
When things calmed down all three of the blokes explained they didn't want her there to the degree that she is at the moment. Blokey ecplained that whatever she does he will not change his mind and is prepared to walk away from it all if it comes down to it!
He seems to believe she may be getting the message. I shall reserve judgement. That was yesterday ....let's see which one of her personalities she chooses today, tomorrow etc
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lol:
Apparently loop de loop ex has finally spoken to her current partner ( ex best mate ) to explain why she has been so upset lately. But failed to inform him that she had threatened to move back etc that she has been begging daily to get back together etc. He was a little confused as to why she would be so bothered Banghead
Anyway hoooooooge bust up at the house yesterday which ended up with the eldest son slapping her round the face as she went off on one and was being a nasty bitch.
When things calmed down all three of the blokes explained they didn't want her there to the degree that she is at the moment. Blokey ecplained that whatever she does he will not change his mind and is prepared to walk away from it all if it comes down to it!
He seems to believe she may be getting the message. I shall reserve judgement. That was yesterday ....let's see which one of her personalities she chooses today, tomorrow etc
Oh Miss D.... noooo:
Wait till she gets your phone number and address... scared2:
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I know ... scared2:
You know what kind of funeral party I want don't you rubschin:
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Is it the one where we all wear sharp black suits, sport machine guns and stand evenly spaced out on the surrounding hillside.
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I know ... scared2:
You know what kind of funeral party I want don't you rubschin:
I don't think you've ever mentioned it... Popcorn:
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Ooooh the fun begins .........the beeatch has sent me some request via Faceache with a vile message attached
Permission to rip the hag to pieces please evil:
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Ooooh the fun begins .........the beeatch has sent me some request via Faceache with a vile message attached
Permission to rip the hag to pieces please evil:
Link? whistle:
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Ooooh the fun begins .........the beeatch has sent me some request via Faceache with a vile message attached
Permission to rip the hag to pieces please evil:
That was somewhat inevitable I'm afraid... happy100
It will be your phone number next and turning up at the office or your house... noooo:
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Seriously Miss D.
This sounds like a total nightmare tbh.
REALLY hope it calms down for you's, but I'm currently not holding my breath.
IF......hopefully not,....obviously, she kicks off big time towards you, get the rozzers on the case pronto. eveilgrin:
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Ooooh the fun begins .........the beeatch has sent me some request via Faceache with a vile message attached
Permission to rip the hag to pieces please evil:
Just say the word. . .
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Mrs Nick has just e mailed me details of a job she thinks I should apply for in Liverpool rubschin:
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Mrs Nick has just e mailed me details of a job she thinks I should apply for in Liverpool rubschin:
Docker?
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No, she's short enough already.
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No, she's short enough already.
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Ooooh the fun begins .........the beeatch has sent me some request via Faceache with a vile message attached
Permission to rip the hag to pieces please evil:
Oh dear. happy100 happy100
Growler is right on this one (not that he always isn't, cunningly slipped in double negative there you notice) If/when the Bitch from Hell (TBFH) rocks up at your place of work or your home plod need to be involved straight away. Restraining Order needs to be in place ASAP.
Re the FB 'stuff' I would try not to respond and just report her actions, report her with each abusive message that she sends. You not responding to her will have a far greater effect than anything else that you can do, other than killing her of course.
We will give you an alibi and say you woz 'ere all the time. :thumbsup:
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Ooooh the fun begins .........the beeatch has sent me some request via Faceache with a vile message attached
Permission to rip the hag to pieces please evil:
Oh dear. happy100 happy100
Growler is right on this one (not that he always isn't, cunningly slipped in double negative there you notice) If/when the Bitch from Hell (TBFH) rocks up at your place of work or your home plod need to be involved straight away. Restraining Order needs to be in place ASAP.
Re the FB 'stuff' I would try not to respond and just report her actions, report her with each abusive message that she sends. You not responding to her will have a far greater effect than anything else that you can do, other than killing her of course.
We will give you an alibi and say you woz 'ere all the time. :thumbsup:
Wise werds! :thumbsup:
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Mrs Nick has just e mailed me details of a job she thinks I should apply for in Liverpool rubschin:
A polite note of thanks and then ignore it would be my advice.
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Ooooh the fun begins .........the beeatch has sent me some request via Faceache with a vile message attached
Permission to rip the hag to pieces please evil:
Oh dear. happy100 happy100
Growler is right on this one (not that he always isn't, cunningly slipped in double negative there you notice) If/when the Bitch from Hell (TBFH) rocks up at your place of work or your home plod need to be involved straight away. Restraining Order needs to be in place ASAP.
Re the FB 'stuff' I would try not to respond and just report her actions, report her with each abusive message that she sends. You not responding to her will have a far greater effect than anything else that you can do, other than killing her of course.
We will give you an alibi and say you woz 'ere all the time. :thumbsup:
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm rubschin:
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm rubschin:
cloud9:
Saying nowt at all, is often better than saying a thousand werds in anger! :thumbsup:
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Ok .....some progress cloud9:
He informed the loop de loop earlier in the week that we were going out yesterday . That she could go to the house to see their youngest if she wanted but that she had to be gone by the time he got back as he didn't want her questioning him about anything that is now none of her business.
He agreed to ring her when he was on his way back so that she could go.
She did as was agreed eeek:
She hasn't rang him incessently to interrogate him or issue ultimatums eeek:
I obviously don't expect this to be consistent as her behaviour is banonkers but it's a start
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Ok .....some progress cloud9:
He informed the loop de loop earlier in the week that we were going out yesterday . That she could go to the house to see their youngest if she wanted but that she had to be gone by the time he got back as he didn't want her questioning him about anything that is now none of her business.
He agreed to ring her when he was on his way back so that she could go.
She did as was agreed eeek:
She hasn't rang him incessently to interrogate him or issue ultimatums eeek:
I obviously don't expect this to be consistent as her behaviour is banonkers but it's a start
Most excellent! Thumbs:
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She just took the opportunity to plant surveilance devices. eeek:
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She just took the opportunity to plant surveilance devices. eeek:
eeek:
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eeek: eeek:
You Tube eeek:
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Ok .....some progress cloud9:
He informed the loop de loop earlier in the week that we were going out yesterday . That she could go to the house to see their youngest if she wanted but that she had to be gone by the time he got back as he didn't want her questioning him about anything that is now none of her business.
He agreed to ring her when he was on his way back so that she could go.
She did as was agreed eeek:
She hasn't rang him incessently to interrogate him or issue ultimatums eeek:
I obviously don't expect this to be consistent as her behaviour is banonkers but it's a start
When you said you were being "taken out" I assumed it was going to be a "drive-by" scared2:
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Ok .....some progress cloud9:
He informed the loop de loop earlier in the week that we were going out yesterday . That she could go to the house to see their youngest if she wanted but that she had to be gone by the time he got back as he didn't want her questioning him about anything that is now none of her business.
He agreed to ring her when he was on his way back so that she could go.
She did as was agreed eeek:
She hasn't rang him incessently to interrogate him or issue ultimatums eeek:
I obviously don't expect this to be consistent as her behaviour is banonkers but it's a start
When you said you were being "taken out" I assumed it was going to be a "drive-by" scared2:
drumroll: lol: lol:.
Good luck with the progress Miss D. :thumbsup:
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I'm agog on YouTube eeek: angel1
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Shrugs: Popcorn:
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I'm agog on YouTube eeek: angel1
I was going to post a linky.........but too much for a family site like this one. noooo:
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I'm agog on YouTube eeek: angel1
I was going to post a linky.........but too much for a family site like this one. noooo:
Pm .................... :thumbsup:
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I'm agog on YouTube eeek: angel1
I was going to post a linky.........but too much for a family site like this one. noooo:
Pm .................... :thumbsup:
Sent it....... you will see she has trimmed it up nicely. Thumbs:
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Mrs Nick has sent me an e mail:
Groundhog Day, the holiday in which we let a little furry rodent predict the weather by looking at his shadow – and actually believe him. Groundhog Day results are in, and Punxsutawney Phil, the groundhog legend, predicted an early spring. Yes, you read that correctly, folks – the Groundhog Day results have determined that winter is ending!
But let’s go back to the beginning. Punxsutawney Phil is a 20-pound, 22-inch reddish brown groundhog that resides in west-central Pennsylvania. Every year on February 2, Americans go crazy for this four-legged celebrity, watching him climb sleepily out of hibernation and determine our seasonal fate for the next six weeks.
As legend has it, if Phil sees his shadow, we are doomed to six more weeks of bitter cold winter temperatures. But if Phil’s shadow is no where to be found we can count on an early spring.
So is this just a bogus tradition, or is Phil a reliable weatherman? Unfortunately, according to the National Climatic Data Center, groundhogs don’t have any great foresight into the future – Phil actually wrong more often than he is right.
Of course, what do you except from a 125 year-old groundhog? Well, he’s not really 125 years old, but that’s what his posse wants us to believe: “Punxsutawney Phil gets his longevity from drinking the ‘elixir of life,’ a secret recipe. Phil takes one sip every summer at the Groundhog Picnic and it magically gives him seven more years of life.”
Riiiiiiiiiight.
So whether or not you choose to take your meteorological advice from a rodent is up to you. I’m going to go ahead and trust Punxsutawney Phil on this one. After all, I’d rather be soaking in spring temperatures next week than freezing my face off in six more weeks of winter
whacky115 Shrugs:
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So did she send you mad or was it the other way round rubschin:
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Mrs Nick has sent me an e mail:
Groundhog Day, the holiday in which we let a little furry rodent predict the weather by looking at his shadow – and actually believe him. Groundhog Day results are in, and Punxsutawney Phil, the groundhog legend, predicted an early spring. Yes, you read that correctly, folks – the Groundhog Day results have determined that winter is ending!
But let’s go back to the beginning. Punxsutawney Phil is a 20-pound, 22-inch reddish brown groundhog that resides in west-central Pennsylvania. Every year on February 2, Americans go crazy for this four-legged celebrity, watching him climb sleepily out of hibernation and determine our seasonal fate for the next six weeks.
As legend has it, if Phil sees his shadow, we are doomed to six more weeks of bitter cold winter temperatures. But if Phil’s shadow is no where to be found we can count on an early spring.
So is this just a bogus tradition, or is Phil a reliable weatherman? Unfortunately, according to the National Climatic Data Center, groundhogs don’t have any great foresight into the future – Phil actually wrong more often than he is right.
Of course, what do you except from a 125 year-old groundhog? Well, he’s not really 125 years old, but that’s what his posse wants us to believe: “Punxsutawney Phil gets his longevity from drinking the ‘elixir of life,’ a secret recipe. Phil takes one sip every summer at the Groundhog Picnic and it magically gives him seven more years of life.”
Riiiiiiiiiight.
So whether or not you choose to take your meteorological advice from a rodent is up to you. I’m going to go ahead and trust Punxsutawney Phil on this one. After all, I’d rather be soaking in spring temperatures next week than freezing my face off in six more weeks of winter
whacky115 Shrugs:
noooo:
Good movie tho! Thumbs:
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Mrs Nick has sent me an e mail:
Groundhog Day, the holiday in which we let a little furry rodent predict the weather by looking at his shadow – and actually believe him. Groundhog Day results are in, and Punxsutawney Phil, the groundhog legend, predicted an early spring. Yes, you read that correctly, folks – the Groundhog Day results have determined that winter is ending!
But let’s go back to the beginning. Punxsutawney Phil is a 20-pound, 22-inch reddish brown groundhog that resides in west-central Pennsylvania. Every year on February 2, Americans go crazy for this four-legged celebrity, watching him climb sleepily out of hibernation and determine our seasonal fate for the next six weeks.
As legend has it, if Phil sees his shadow, we are doomed to six more weeks of bitter cold winter temperatures. But if Phil’s shadow is no where to be found we can count on an early spring.
So is this just a bogus tradition, or is Phil a reliable weatherman? Unfortunately, according to the National Climatic Data Center, groundhogs don’t have any great foresight into the future – Phil actually wrong more often than he is right.
Of course, what do you except from a 125 year-old groundhog? Well, he’s not really 125 years old, but that’s what his posse wants us to believe: “Punxsutawney Phil gets his longevity from drinking the ‘elixir of life,’ a secret recipe. Phil takes one sip every summer at the Groundhog Picnic and it magically gives him seven more years of life.”
Riiiiiiiiiight.
So whether or not you choose to take your meteorological advice from a rodent is up to you. I’m going to go ahead and trust Punxsutawney Phil on this one. After all, I’d rather be soaking in spring temperatures next week than freezing my face off in six more weeks of winter
whacky115 Shrugs:
noooo:
Good movie tho! Thumbs:
I found it a bit repetitive TBH.
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Mrs Nick has sent me an e mail:
Groundhog Day, the holiday in which we let a little furry rodent predict the weather by looking at his shadow – and actually believe him. Groundhog Day results are in, and Punxsutawney Phil, the groundhog legend, predicted an early spring. Yes, you read that correctly, folks – the Groundhog Day results have determined that winter is ending!
But let’s go back to the beginning. Punxsutawney Phil is a 20-pound, 22-inch reddish brown groundhog that resides in west-central Pennsylvania. Every year on February 2, Americans go crazy for this four-legged celebrity, watching him climb sleepily out of hibernation and determine our seasonal fate for the next six weeks.
As legend has it, if Phil sees his shadow, we are doomed to six more weeks of bitter cold winter temperatures. But if Phil’s shadow is no where to be found we can count on an early spring.
So is this just a bogus tradition, or is Phil a reliable weatherman? Unfortunately, according to the National Climatic Data Center, groundhogs don’t have any great foresight into the future – Phil actually wrong more often than he is right.
Of course, what do you except from a 125 year-old groundhog? Well, he’s not really 125 years old, but that’s what his posse wants us to believe: “Punxsutawney Phil gets his longevity from drinking the ‘elixir of life,’ a secret recipe. Phil takes one sip every summer at the Groundhog Picnic and it magically gives him seven more years of life.”
Riiiiiiiiiight.
So whether or not you choose to take your meteorological advice from a rodent is up to you. I’m going to go ahead and trust Punxsutawney Phil on this one. After all, I’d rather be soaking in spring temperatures next week than freezing my face off in six more weeks of winter
whacky115 Shrugs:
noooo:
Good movie tho! Thumbs:
I found it a bit repetitive TBH.
drumroll:
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Mrs Nick has sent me an e mail:
Groundhog Day, the holiday in which we let a little furry rodent predict the weather by looking at his shadow – and actually believe him. Groundhog Day results are in, and Punxsutawney Phil, the groundhog legend, predicted an early spring. Yes, you read that correctly, folks – the Groundhog Day results have determined that winter is ending!
But let’s go back to the beginning. Punxsutawney Phil is a 20-pound, 22-inch reddish brown groundhog that resides in west-central Pennsylvania. Every year on February 2, Americans go crazy for this four-legged celebrity, watching him climb sleepily out of hibernation and determine our seasonal fate for the next six weeks.
As legend has it, if Phil sees his shadow, we are doomed to six more weeks of bitter cold winter temperatures. But if Phil’s shadow is no where to be found we can count on an early spring.
So is this just a bogus tradition, or is Phil a reliable weatherman? Unfortunately, according to the National Climatic Data Center, groundhogs don’t have any great foresight into the future – Phil actually wrong more often than he is right.
Of course, what do you except from a 125 year-old groundhog? Well, he’s not really 125 years old, but that’s what his posse wants us to believe: “Punxsutawney Phil gets his longevity from drinking the ‘elixir of life,’ a secret recipe. Phil takes one sip every summer at the Groundhog Picnic and it magically gives him seven more years of life.”
Riiiiiiiiiight.
So whether or not you choose to take your meteorological advice from a rodent is up to you. I’m going to go ahead and trust Punxsutawney Phil on this one. After all, I’d rather be soaking in spring temperatures next week than freezing my face off in six more weeks of winter
whacky115 Shrugs:
noooo:
Good movie tho! Thumbs:
I found it a bit repetitive TBH.
happy001
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I'm a dog on YouTube eeek: angel1
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I'm a dog on YouTube eeek: angel1
rubschin:
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Right ....how much does it cost ?
How much manure does it take ?
How much cement and sand ?
I last spoke to the man on his way from footy last night all was good .
Didn't get my normal morning message this morning but thought nothing of it. My boss was trying to organise a meeting with him this morning. She then turned to me and said is he alright as he says there are problems at home this morning ? rubschin:
We were meant to be meeting for lunch and he had a prior meeting in the building. Turns up at my desk and his face looks like its been mauled by a Bengal Tiger eeek: eeek: eeek:
Apparently she had got hold of his phone ...seen a few texts he had sent and went for him. Threw a glass and scratched him to feck. It took both boys to drag her off and then matey called her bloke and told him either he picks her up or the police will eeek:
I was a little shocked.
Then burst into tears
And am now furious evil:
It is only Monday
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Right ....how much does it cost ?
How much manure does it take ?
How much cement and sand ?
I last spoke to the man on his way from footy last night all was good .
Didn't get my normal morning message this morning but thought nothing of it. My boss was trying to organise a meeting with him this morning. She then turned to me and said is he alright as he says there are problems at home this morning ? rubschin:
We were meant to be meeting for lunch and he had a prior meeting in the building. Turns up at my desk and his face looks like its been mauled by a Bengal Tiger eeek: eeek: eeek:
Apparently she had got hold of his phone ...seen a few texts he had sent and went for him. Threw a glass and scratched him to feck. It took both boys to drag her off and then matey called her bloke and told him either he picks her up or the police will eeek:
I was a little shocked.
Then burst into tears
And am now furious evil:
It is only Monday
I'm so sorry.... happy100
On a practical note though, does she now have your phone number and address too...?
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Jesus honey! eeek: Get the voddy out of your handbag while we consider your next move.
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How did she get the phone......... rubschin:
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Not address and not sure she had time to write a phone number down before flying off her handle ....but she's welcome to ring me . I'm sure I can think of one or two things to say evil:
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How did she get the phone......... rubschin:
Left on table .
She had come round early to take the youngest for a dental check up first thing noooo:
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How did she get the phone......... rubschin:
Left on table
Given the ongoing situation, he is a complete fucking mong.... ::)
Sorry... noooo:
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There is nothing on the phone she is not aware of .
It is not a shock for her but an excuse
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How did she get the phone......... rubschin:
Left on table
Given the ongoing situation, he is a complete fucking mong.... ::)
Sorry... noooo:
Or put a key lock on it.......
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Post her number on here .......between us night owls/shift workers and early birds .......I am sure we can manage hourly calls ............ eveilgrin:
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Post her number on here .......between us night owls/shift workers and early birds .......I am sure we can manage hourly calls ............ eveilgrin:
[serious] This is woman that you do not want to wind up. Miss D's new man needs to take this to the police. Miss D needs to take special care because the same thing could happen to her should this (obviously deranged) woman ever discover her address. As it is, she knows where Miss D works which is a worry in itself. [/serious]
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Calm down everybody. Horrible as it is, this now presents a proper opportunity for legal intervention if he can stomach it.
He needs to report the assault, even if he subsequently chooses not to press charges.
Having it on record may be a powerful asset further down the road.
I am sorry to hear it is getting so out of hand and hurtful to you both, but it is just a blip on the way to your objective.
Be strong and make sure it goes on record...
happy100
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wot he said. At the very least I really think she should be reported so the police are aware of the situation. I know we have all been joking about it, but it just got serious. She is obviously unstable and we worry about you.
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I'm more worried about him tbh and agree he should report this.
I think he should change the locks and then go to a solicitor to start the ball rolling on agreeing a settlement re the house . If she wants to see the boys she can do it outside the home environment but to be homest I'm not sure they would want to see her too much.
Of course if her current bloke is now wondering what the hell is going on that she is acting so dememented that may have repercussions for their relationship and matey boy is hoping this will make her think twice in future.
I have no such confidence.
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I'm more worried about him tbh and agree he should report this.
I think he should change the locks and then go to a solicitor to start the ball rolling on agreeing a settlement re the house . If she wants to see the boys she can do it outside the home environment but to be homest I'm not sure they would want to see her too much.
Of course if her current bloke is now wondering what the hell is going on that she is acting so dememented that may have repercussions for their relationship and matey boy is hoping this will make her think twice in future.
I have no such confidence.
But surely she owns half of the house...?
Changing the locks of her own house is prolly illegal...
Assault is definitely illegal though and should be reported...
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I'm just gobsmacked. In fact my gob has rarely been so utterly smacked Shocked: Shocked:
happy100 MissD
DS, as ever, is making hectares of common sense and the legal eagles may need to be brought in.
I was only ever once in a slightly comparable but nasty situation with a girlfriend's ex playing Heave-ho Havoc... I thought it was about time to bring in the police ... until I discovered that he was an ex copper eeek: eeek:
Fortunately things quietened down of their own accord.
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I'm more worried about him tbh and agree he should report this.
I think he should change the locks and then go to a solicitor to start the ball rolling on agreeing a settlement re the house . If she wants to see the boys she can do it outside the home environment but to be homest I'm not sure they would want to see her too much.
Of course if her current bloke is now wondering what the hell is going on that she is acting so dememented that may have repercussions for their relationship and matey boy is hoping this will make her think twice in future.
I have no such confidence.
Oh Miss D happy100 happy100
Plod do need to be involved now. An injunction can be easily and quickly obtained.
I would get the locks changed and worry about the legalities later. The children really do not need to be exposed to this.
Others have said it but I will say it again it will quieten down in time.
Just out of interest what does she do when she is not having a mental hissy fit that is?
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I'm more worried about him tbh and agree he should report this.
I think he should change the locks and then go to a solicitor to start the ball rolling on agreeing a settlement re the house . If she wants to see the boys she can do it outside the home environment but to be homest I'm not sure they would want to see her too much.
Of course if her current bloke is now wondering what the hell is going on that she is acting so dememented that may have repercussions for their relationship and matey boy is hoping this will make her think twice in future.
I have no such confidence.
Oh Miss D happy100 happy100
Plod do need to be involved now. An injunction can be easily and quickly obtained.
I would get the locks changed and worry about the legalities later. The children really do not need to be exposed to this.
Others have said it but I will say it again it will quieten down in time.
Just out of interest what does she do when she is not having a mental hissy fit that is?
Agreed on the locks ........she would have to take him to court .........long time and he could explain why he changed them (after he reports the assault).........
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She works for the NHS ...you couldn't make it up !
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This is crazy, or she is. I agree with DS and Miss C. He has to report it to the plod
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He's better off instructing a solicitor to secure an ex-parte non-molestation order with power of arrest to be served on her, together with an application for a non-molestation order and occupation order...
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He's better off instructing a solicitor to secure an ex-parte non-molestation order with power of arrest to be served on her, together with an application for a non-molestation order and occupation order...
was hoping yioiu would come along and give some legal info for her.
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I just did...
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He also reckons her bedroom windows are illegally tinted ::)
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Not from the inside... ;)
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I just did...
I know, that's why I said......... oh never mind. ::)
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I just did...
I know, that's why I said......... oh never mind. ::)
rubschin:
sex014
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Miss D has been quiet ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, rubschin:
Is it scared2: or eyes:
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Deffo eyes: eyes: eyes: eyes: eyes: eyes: eyes: eyes: eyes:
Poor lass will be shagged out noooo:
Ah, here comes Tipsy in her best socks cloud9:
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Oh no...he was in Madrid for 3 days last week watching footy and with the lads. Saw him Friday for big night out but he was fragile to say the least and I got very drunk at this leaving do.
As for the mad bitch she is trying everything still. He will be going to get legal advice in next week or so.
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Oh no...he was in Madrid for 3 days last week watching footy and with the lads. Saw him Friday for big night out but he was fragile to say the least and I got very drunk at this leaving do.
As for the mad bitch she is trying everything still. He will be going to get legal advice in next week or so.
Wot car next........... rubschin:
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Top Man apey :thumbsup:
This stuff is vital :thumbsup:
Oh and good luck Miss D
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. . .Oh and good luck Miss D
Wot he said ^
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We'll see eh.
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We'll see eh.
Charlie Wilson's War .............. :thumbsup: great quote.......
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He will be going to get legal advice in next week or so.
At last! Thumbs:
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Miss D has been quiet .......... rubschin:
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When she isn't eating or on the voddy she is all luvved up noooo:
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When she isn't eating or on the voddy she is all luvved up noooo:
Sounds OK to me
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When she isn't eating or on the voddy she is all luvved up noooo:
Sounds OK to me
We live in hope! Thumbs:
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Well I thought you might all be getting a bit bored with it to be honest.
But it doesn't go away ...or rather she doesn't.
She made a full on play for him on Thursday night evil: When rejected she kept asking how likely is it that they will get back together Banghead
Even after he said to her that it will not happen ...ever ....she said she will then 'have to' speak to her bloke about how she is feeling .
noooo: noooo: noooo:
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Well I thought you might all be getting a bit bored with it to be honest.
But it doesn't go away ...or rather she doesn't.
She made a full on play for him on Thursday night evil: When rejected she kept asking how likely is it that they will get back together Banghead
Even after he said to her that it will not happen ...ever ....she said she will then 'have to' speak to her bloke about how she is feeling .
noooo: noooo: noooo:
happy100
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Well I thought you might all be getting a bit bored with it to be honest.
But it doesn't go away ...or rather she doesn't.
She made a full on play for him on Thursday night evil: When rejected she kept asking how likely is it that they will get back together Banghead
Even after he said to her that it will not happen ...ever ....she said she will then 'have to' speak to her bloke about how she is feeling .
noooo: noooo: noooo:
The legal bit............. rubschin:
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An appointment has been made and he is also trying to convince his son to go and visit her at her place rather than she visiting them all the time.
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Then steps forward are being made. She might not like it but you seem to be not just a muse but a catalyst too. Patience Miss D. :thumbsup:
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Well I thought you might all be getting a bit bored with it to be honest.
But it doesn't go away ...or rather she doesn't.
She made a full on play for him on Thursday night evil: When rejected she kept asking how likely is it that they will get back together Banghead
Even after he said to her that it will not happen ...ever ....she said she will then 'have to' speak to her bloke about how she is feeling .
noooo: noooo: noooo:
I was only asking wot colour his new car was.......... redface:
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. . . not just a muse but a catalyst . . .
Added to the DS book of potentially useful phrases. :thumbsup:
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. . . not just a muse but a catalyst . . .
Added to the DS book of potentially useful phrases. :thumbsup:
lol: My earthly purpose is now fulfilled. angel1
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I am about to rip the head off the fruit loop with my bare hands as using the axe would take the pleasure away cussing:
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I am about to rip the head off the fruit loop with my bare hands as using the axe would take the pleasure away cussing:
So things getting better,,,,,, noooo:
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I am about to rip the head off the fruit loop with my bare hands as using the axe would take the pleasure away cussing:
So things getting better,,,,,, noooo:
lol: lol: lol: lol:
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I am about to rip the head off the fruit loop with my bare hands as using the axe would take the pleasure away cussing:
tell us honey, what's the nutcase done now?
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^^^ He suggested things were getting better point:
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^^^ He suggested things were getting better point:
happy001
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^^^ He suggested things were getting better point:
evil: ;D ;D
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^^^ He suggested things were getting better point:
evil: ;D ;D
point:
Gun>>Foot
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^^^ He suggested things were getting better point:
evil: ;D ;D
Spank2:
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Ignore the children ,,,,,,,and tell Miss D.......... :thumbsup:
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^^^ He suggested things were getting better point:
evil: ;D ;D
Spank2:
Calm down you two, so she can dish the dirt.
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^^^ He suggested things were getting better point:
evil: ;D ;D
Spank2:
Calm down you two, so she can dish the dirt.
This thread started in January 30th....
Nuff said... whistle:
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^^^ He suggested things were getting better point:
evil: ;D ;D
Spank2:
Calm down you two, so she can dish the dirt.
This thread started in January 30th....
Nuff said... whistle:
*Taps nose*
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Oh there has just been so much noooo:
But she has thrown a complete strop tonight because she is saying that he shouldn't go out on Saturday with me to this party and has turned round to her children and said that due to the actions of their dad she will not be seeing them again. Then walked out. The youngest is in floods of tears.
He doesn't appreciate this is just attention seeking drama queen flouncing. What a cruel and fecking wicked woman !
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Oh there has just been so much noooo:
But she has thrown a complete strop tonight because she is saying that he shouldn't go out on Saturday with me to this party and has turned round to her children and said that due to the actions of their dad she will not be seeing them again. Then walked out. The youngest is in floods of tears.
He doesn't appreciate this is just attention seeking drama queen flouncing. What a cruel and fecking wicked woman !
But what did you expect...? Shrugs:
Right time to get stuff off my chest !!!!
New man is totally lovely and ‘we’ are really good together.
The fly in the ointment is his ex, they were not married though. She left him about 5 years to go off with his best mate. She now lives with said ex best mate.
They have a joint mortgage but she has not paid anything for the last 5 years. He has remained at the house with their 2 sons (20 & 15). She turns up at the house anytime she wants which is often quite a few days a week (under the guise of seeing the boys).
New man informed her sometime ago that he was in a new relationship. Since then all hell has broken loose. cussing:
She has asked to get back together (whilst still going on holiday with her other blokey of course ) . When he has refused she has gone totally ballistic. She has tried to turn their sons against him but both of the boys fully support him having this relationship.
Yesterday she has declared she is moving back in and will be making his life hell and obviously the lives of her children who do not want her to move back in .
The wumman is feckin unbelievable ....I am hoping that she is just having a massive tantrum cos I can’t possibly see her leaving her current bloke to go and stay where she is not wanted , potentially at the risk of losing current bloke and the ex bloke not wanting anything to do with you - but I wouldn’t put it past her. Banghead
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What happened with his legal stuff,,,,,,,,,,,,,or did he not do it...... rubschin:
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What happened with his legal stuff,,,,,,,,,,,,,or did he not do it...... rubschin:
I think we know the answer. noooo:
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What happened with his legal stuff,,,,,,,,,,,,,or did he not do it...... rubschin:
I think we know the answer. noooo:
Ezackly.... noooo:
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No , thats in progress.
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Miss D, obviously we are all here to support you but this has gone on long enough. He has got to make a stand. He shouldn't even give her the opportunity to dictate whether he can go to a bloody party or not. She is not his mother she is not his wife she is a raving fucking lunatic who will lose in the end as her kids wont want anything to do with her.
She has nothing to do with your relationship with Mr X and he should grow a pair and tell her so. This man makes you happy and the psycho bitch should play no part in what you have. Tell him to fix it or he will have the tyranny of the VP on his ass.
This is his official warning. eveilgrin:
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No , thats in progress.
Least he is going forward.......... whistle:
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No , thats in progress.
Least he is going forward.......... whistle:
happy001
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Miss D, obviously we are all here to support you but this has gone on long enough. He has got to make a stand. He shouldn't even give her the opportunity to dictate whether he can go to a bloody party or not. She is not his mother she is not his wife she is a raving fucking lunatic who will lose in the end as her kids wont want anything to do with her.
She has nothing to do with your relationship with Mr X and he should grow a pair and tell her so. This man makes you happy and the psycho bitch should play no part in what you have. Tell him to fix it or he will have the tyranny of the VP on his ass.
This is his official warning. eveilgrin:
:thumbsup:
Oh, and happy100 Miss D x
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^^^Wot they said.^^^ Huge hugs Miss D. happy100 happy100
Might be adding Sons tales of woe over the next day or so.
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Has anybody seen my "Best of Leonard Cohen" CD?
eastdrink048
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Bin him Miss D...I'm still here for you babe...(https://www.virtual-pub.com/SMF/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.freesmileys.org%2Fsmileys%2Fsmiley-merv%2Frose.gif&hash=f6cbc0bd8900b3c961801fe2c22463975bf4d00a) (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)
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Has anybody seen my "Best of Leonard Cohen" CD?
eastdrink048
The world's shortest CD...?
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Has anybody seen my "Best of Leonard Cohen" CD?
eastdrink048
The world's shortest CD...?
evil: evil: evil: effin brilliant is Mr C esp live. But we digress
Oh there has just been so much noooo: . . .
I have no expert insights Miss D but much sympathies. Seems you and he are dealing with an attention seeking manipulative in denial nutjob. Sadly it's not (yet) illegal to be one.
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Bin him Miss D...I'm still here for you babe...(https://www.virtual-pub.com/SMF/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.freesmileys.org%2Fsmileys%2Fsmiley-merv%2Frose.gif&hash=f6cbc0bd8900b3c961801fe2c22463975bf4d00a) (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)
Don't you have a plethora of ex's too ? noooo:
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Bin him Miss D...I'm still here for you babe...(https://www.virtual-pub.com/SMF/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.freesmileys.org%2Fsmileys%2Fsmiley-merv%2Frose.gif&hash=f6cbc0bd8900b3c961801fe2c22463975bf4d00a) (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)
Don't you have a plethora of ex's too ? noooo:
lol: lol: lol:
He is now your potential ex....even though he was never a starter if you know what I mean like.
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Bin him Miss D...I'm still here for you babe...(https://www.virtual-pub.com/SMF/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.freesmileys.org%2Fsmileys%2Fsmiley-merv%2Frose.gif&hash=f6cbc0bd8900b3c961801fe2c22463975bf4d00a) (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)
Don't you have a plethora of ex's too ? noooo:
noooo: No...only 3...
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You know how to contact me hunny bunny.
Claws and teeth can be sharpened at a moments notice, and i can pound me way down to sort this cow if so required.
I have a way with wimmin when I'm riled like. eveilgrin:
Zero patience with the majority of 'em gives me a a 'ed start too. evil:
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Has anybody seen my "Best of Leonard Cohen" CD?
eastdrink048
The world's shortest CD...?
evil: evil: evil: effin brilliant is Mr C esp live. But we digress
Oh there has just been so much noooo: . . .
I have no expert insights Miss D but much sympathies. Seems you and he are dealing with an attention seeking manipulative in denial nutjob. Sadly it's not (yet) illegal to be one.
I didn't know that you had met Mr C. Shocked: When you say, 'especially live' I thought that I had kept news of my patio digging activities quiet. noooo:
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I was referring to Mr Cohen (Leonard theeof)
confusing eh
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All my support too. Take no sh!t from any quarter
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We all LUV Miss D cloud9: cloud9: cloud9:
Her stumpy legs will get her through cloud9:
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I was referring to Mr Cohen (Leonard theeof)
confusing eh
Indeed, so my patio activities remain secret. :thumbsup:
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Well there is Sky Cam (in our imaginations)
anyway maybe that Mr C is your Mr C ;). At least one of them is well minted.
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Where is Miss D ......... scared2:
or.......... eyes:
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censored: Banghead cussing: censored: cussing: Explode:
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She lives .......... :thumbsup: but is that the ex or words you shout out when rubschin:..........
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noooo: noooo: noooo:
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happy100
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We miss you........ sad24:
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Then you need more help than I do lol:
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happy100
^^^Wot he said^^^ Girly hugs Miss D. x
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All very quiet......... scared2:
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If only noooo:
I have just given up ranting about it on here noooo:
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holding back on your avid readers then cry:
Very wise of course
why should we get to read ahead of the lucrative serialisation in the tabloids
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If only noooo:
I have just given up ranting about it on here noooo:
We need to know............
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If only noooo:
I have just given up ranting about it on here noooo:
We need to know............
Wait for it on the Jerry Springer show.
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Many a true word noooo:
Will need to go and get a a tattoo and a velour tracksuit first noooo:
Though I think I do her an injustice ...just when you think she has tried it all she creates some new problem.
Weekends are normally particulalry bad.
Last weekend ( not the one just gone - as that was only yesterday .....for Growler clarification purposes) The man and I spent the Saturday together. Now she knows the Brat is at work on a Saturday so had made the assumption that we would be shagging all day. If only - the poor bloke got dragged round tile shops noooo:
Anyways she was supposed to have left by the time he got home ...she hadn't evil:. He is trying not to engage with any of her tactics which essentially means not really talking to her much. So when she began questioning him about what he'd done during the day and he told her it was none of his business she went absolutely ballistic.
To the point where she lost it and was going round the house screaming obscenties about apparently what he'd been doing all day. He told her to leave evil:
She rang her bloke crying and asking for him to comne and pick her up. He asked why she was upset and she explained it was cos the man had been out all day shagging and he hadn't been sensitive to her feelings when he had got back . Her bloke then refused to come and collect her noooo: . It was up to the eldest boy to speak to the boyfriend and ask him to come and collect his mum. Eventually she left.
All last week she has been playing the victim. Then getting upset. Styating that she wants to maintain a friendship and she wants him to be able to 'confide' with her and vice versa noooo: He has said he won't , he will speak to me and not her if there is anything to discuss and she should speak to her partner not him.
I am apprently a whore. Looking for a father figure for the Brat , after their house, his money etc etc etc. doh:
She has said I am not allowed to meet the boys or visit the house.
Now she has also said she wants to remortgage the house and take £50k out of it so she can do a loft conversion of the place she is living in with her bloke . Her name is not on the mortgage there and she wants to invest in it as neither her nor her bloke have any pension provision so they do this and then downsize in future.
The man wants her to go with him to go through the legal stuff. She refuses. She just wants him to do this and then he continues to pay the mortgage but her bloke might pay the difference. Sounds like a safe plan eh noooo:
Then this weekend ( that is the one just gone) she has now accused the man of neglecting the youngest as his priorities have changed. She again was meant to be there on Saturday and just didn't turn up he would not be there but choose instead to go yesterday when she knew he would be at home. She told the boys she has had to suppress her feelings for the last 5 years as she wants to be back there with them ::)
The youngest is a little sensitive and so was quite upset yesterday. Neither of the boys want her to come back and the youngest is particulalrly anxious that when they are both there the arguments can be quite bitter and nasty. The man spent last night with him , talking to him and explaining clearly what will and will not happen. But he is angry with her for twisting and turning on her own kids.
Words for my feelings towards this woman fail me censored:
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Oh Miss D happy100
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http://www.itv.com/jeremykyle/be-a-guest/ (http://www.itv.com/jeremykyle/be-a-guest/) :thumbsup:
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JFC Miss D. eeek: Shocked:
Far far too intense, stressfull and complicated for me that would be.
...and folk ask me happy001 WHY TF in the whole wide I'd want to live in an 'ut in the woods with a one eyed snarling wulf, surrounded by a barbed wire perimeter fence, miles from civilisation and all this sort of shite^^ when the GROWLERS jnr's collective finally flee the den. ::)
Well let's think. rubschin:
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Most relationships reveal skellingtons in the closet, but bloody hells teeth gerl, you seem to have found the full cemetary load here!! Shocked:
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JFC Miss D. eeek: Shocked:
Far far too intense, stressfull and complicated for me that would be.
...and folk ask me happy001 WHY TF in the whole wide I'd want to live in an 'ut in the woods with a one eyed snarling wulf, surrounded by a barbed wire perimeter fence, miles from civilisation and all this sort of shite^^ when the GROWLERS jnr's collective finally flee the den. ::)
Well let's think. rubschin:
Send you to Colditz, you say? rubschin:
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eeek: eeek: eeek: Miss D
Have to admire your patience, by now most would be poisoning her tea. With luck her new bloke will do that for you.
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I was originally thinking of an injunction. After that lot you could probably get her sectioned. noooo: noooo:
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DS has the right of it. This is unacceptable for the kids
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I was originally thinking of an injunction. After that lot you could probably get her sectioned. noooo: noooo:
Darwin has a good point here Miss D. Get man to tape her next little outburst. He can also have her arrested next time she kicks off, she does not need to touch either him or the kids she can still be arrested. Plod take domestic abuse very seriously these days. If he can't do it for himself tell him to do it for the children, Nick is right it is unacceptable for them, in fact it is child abuse, bloke needs to man up I'm afraid.
Apart from anything else it is not going to take much for her to completely flip and cause serious physical harm. noooo:
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As suggested in post #139... whistle:
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Anyways she was supposed to have left by the time he got home
Going from past experience of helping a friend deal with a rabid ex (although not quite as nuts as this one), if she is going to be in the house without the pair of you around I'd suggest either getting a couple of small cameras or find some way to make sure she isn't rifling through your/his stuff.
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Any updates........ rubschin:
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Any updates........ rubschin:
perv. noooo:
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Any updates........ rubschin:
Plenty ....none of them good
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Any updates........ rubschin:
Plenty ....none of them good
happy100
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Miss D has been quiet ....... scared2:
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I am a bit quiet I know
As probably hinted at elsewhere just about everything is a pile of shite at the moment.
Things with The Brat have obviously taken over and trying to all I can to get her back on track.
As for the man and the ex ...she is currently stalking me on facebook and I don't quite know how she is doing it as I have checked all my security settings etc.
She still is adamant that I should not go near the house. The man has met up with her and her bloke ( his ex best mate) to look at options about the house as she wants to take some of her money out now . He has insisted on legal agreements and a structure for coming round to be part of this arrangement if he is to agree to it.
They have had a valuation done but if she doesn't agree to the rest the only solution he can see is to sell up .
I am due to go on holiday with the brat and family friends in about 10 days and quite frankly can't wait.
I have given the man a bit of an ultimatum for when I get back.
I am looking at time share options in Growlers cave right now :thumbsup:
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As for the man and the ex ...she is currently stalking me on facebook and I don't quite know how she is doing it as I have checked all my security settings etc.
I am looking at time share options in Growlers cave right now :thumbsup:
Trouble with faceache is the security settings of your friends.....Some of your stuff will still show up when she looks at their pages. Take out showing on your timeline your friends......unfortunately she might have already written them down and will stalk you through them. noooo:
Go and stay with BM. Thumbs: He even has a car you can borrow/smash up. Thumbs:
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I am a bit quiet I know
As probably hinted at elsewhere just about everything is a pile of shite at the moment.
Things with The Brat have obviously taken over and trying to all I can to get her back on track.
As for the man and the ex ...she is currently stalking me on facebook and I don't quite know how she is doing it as I have checked all my security settings etc.
She still is adamant that I should not go near the house. The man has met up with her and her bloke ( his ex best mate) to look at options about the house as she wants to take some of her money out now . He has insisted on legal agreements and a structure for coming round to be part of this arrangement if he is to agree to it.
They have had a valuation done but if she doesn't agree to the rest the only solution he can see is to sell up .
I am due to go on holiday with the brat and family friends in about 10 days and quite frankly can't wait.
I have given the man a bit of an ultimatum for when I get back.
I am looking at time share options in Growlers cave right now :thumbsup:
wow! it doesn't rain but it pours honey. If anyone deserves a holiday, its you. Cyprus is nice this time of year. :thumbsup:
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I am a bit quiet I know
As probably hinted at elsewhere just about everything is a pile of shite at the moment.
Things with The Brat have obviously taken over and trying to all I can to get her back on track.
As for the man and the ex ...she is currently stalking me on facebook and I don't quite know how she is doing it as I have checked all my security settings etc.
She still is adamant that I should not go near the house. The man has met up with her and her bloke ( his ex best mate) to look at options about the house as she wants to take some of her money out now . He has insisted on legal agreements and a structure for coming round to be part of this arrangement if he is to agree to it.
They have had a valuation done but if she doesn't agree to the rest the only solution he can see is to sell up .
I am due to go on holiday with the brat and family friends in about 10 days and quite frankly can't wait.
I have given the man a bit of an ultimatum for when I get back.
I am looking at time share options in Growlers cave right now :thumbsup:
noooo:
happy100